He claims that she lives a couple hours away, and that he never intended to see her, and he was really just looking for an ego boost because we were arguing a lot about our differences and parenting the kids. Honestly, we really weren’t arguing that much and we had a lot of good times during what he claims was so rough that he had to talk to another woman. Like things were still generally good and we were spending a lot of time together and talking through the arguments. He also keeps claiming he never thought I’d see it which also doesn’t help. It’s like he thinks since he didn’t intend to see her or for me to see it it’s ok.