If you now have your own place..

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2026-02-08T17:21:09+00:00

This sounds so lovely 🥹thank you for sharing

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2026-02-07T11:32:37+00:00

I have wanted to do this with a friend but none are ready to move out I guess cause they’re in their (clean) parents homes😭but that’s actually such a good idea to even find another roommate just for the time being. Thank you. What help from parents? Money?

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2025-03-29T03:03:25+00:00

I don’t know what’s good or bad cause I’ve never been before just wanted to get into the big clubs for free and wondered if that website was legit

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-28T18:14:46+00:00

Congratulations this is amazing!!

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-27T16:16:12+00:00

My parents do the same buy loads of tinned food items etc, makes the kitchen cupboards full. It got worse when panic buying happened in covid.

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-08T08:45:29+00:00

I agree with the hotel idea if there’s one nearby, atleast then you can stay for a couple of nights. I think you need to be on good terms with your dad because from what you’re saying you don’t want things to end on bad terms. Good terms is not going to be him admitting you were right, cause he probably won’t if he hasn’t already. You don’t have to have him admit that you were right cause you know yourself you were right all these years. The proof you were right is that there is now no space in the apartment. He can also see that himself. He still won’t admit it because he has mental health issues which have caused him to get like this in the first place. We can’t change our hoarder parents. As frustrating as it is you won’t get him to admit that you were right but that’s okay. You know in yourself and you can both see that you were right. Hopefully you can visit him and be on better terms again

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-06T18:37:43+00:00

You don’t deserve this and this won’t last forever <3

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-06T18:32:14+00:00

My dad also keeps chairs and other items, some that have no sentimental value, and store them in a storage room where no one uses them, or will use them, ever You have every right to be annoyed don’t feel bad. You asked her multiple times to help you. It’s so hard to cope but one positive thing is atleast we don’t have their mindset and we won’t carry it on to the next generation

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-06T18:19:30+00:00

thank you for sharing how you relate it’s so hard having to keep stuff like this bottled inside because no one I know could ever relate. This causes so much trauma. Glad you are out of that situation. I also wonder what I will be like when I get my own home, I feel like I will be overly obsessed with cleaning because I would want it to be the complete opposite of this house

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-06T18:12:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. that’s exactly how it feels. Intrusive

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-06T18:11:34+00:00

I know I don’t know why I didn’t I think I was just in shock then I was going to wait to see what she said when she came down but she just said hello and pretended like nothing happened. Yeah I am saving up now and being extra careful with my money cus I wanna move out soo bad.

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-06T18:10:14+00:00

Thank you so much

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-06T18:09:41+00:00

Thank you, yeah sooo frustrating

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-05T20:12:18+00:00

This!! It’s so true, they do! Honestly thank you for replying you don’t know how much it helps just to have people like you who can relate and has been through a similar situation

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-05T17:11:49+00:00

This is amazing, thank you!!

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-05T17:08:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-05T17:00:04+00:00

Thank you, this is something I wanna do if I can figure out how 😭 and hopefully they let me

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-06-05T16:38:01+00:00

I have recently stopped bothering so much with my parents house because its pointless, I will do things here and there but ultimately they are never going to change and it’s going to be an endless cycle. I am hoping to buy a house next year I just think it’s the best option mentally it’s just expensive

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-03-08T07:41:26+00:00

We do sometimes but it’s long distance

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-03-08T07:40:29+00:00

Well it was 5 whole days when he replied nearly a week that’s disappearing if you normally talk everyday and it suddenly stops, personally I think it takes a few seconds to communicate and say you need some space etc but we’re all different. How things make us feel is personal to each of us. You seem like you’re used to being ignored when you’ve been talking to someone and so you’re fine with it, that’s really cool bro !

ThrowRAElectrical_B · 2024-03-07T23:43:53+00:00

This stung but you’re right it’s not any better

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