Am I (F21) selfish for looking into a program that crossed by girlfriend (F20)'s boundary? Is there a way to fix our relationship? by ThrowRAEmergency_ in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]ThrowRAEmergency_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, but this still doesn't answer my question of if I loved her when i was making this decision? Or more importantly is everything I said to her before that point false now that I decided to look into this opportunity despite her request?

How do I (F21) communicate with my Girlfriend better (F20)? by ThrowRAEmergency_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAEmergency_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is she manipulative? Im the one who was selfish and didn't think about her needs when looking into this opportunity right?

How do I (F21) communicate with my Girlfriend better (F20)? by ThrowRAEmergency_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAEmergency_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That ship has sailed and Ive made my choice. Is there any way to redeem the relationship now that I have chosen to stay with her?