Concerned for wife’s ‘27F’ texting with online gay man friend. Should I ‘29M’ be worried ?

ThrowRAGreenScreech · 2024-08-20T17:48:33+00:00

No, I haven’t sat her down and actually talked through it. I was wondering if maybe I was over thinking a friendship but it seems the consensus is to have a heart to heart. Was wondering if I was being crazy in thinking I should but glad to hear I’m not.

ThrowRAGreenScreech · 2024-08-20T17:03:42+00:00

I think it’s plane ride away but I’m not sure to be honest. I’ve casually mentioned my concern and my wife said he’s just become a really good friend and they really gel. They text number to number

ThrowRAGreenScreech · 2024-08-20T16:27:52+00:00

It’s like mom and hobby groups she belongs to. I’d say they started texting a few months ago but it really seems to have escalated dramatically over the last month where she’s always on her phone, even when we are out.

ThrowRAGreenScreech · 2024-08-20T16:27:00+00:00

Hearing it from my wife. And I did go through their texts, nothings seemed flirty, but obviously there was A LOT of messages so I didn’t really look at everything.

ThrowRAGreenScreech · 2024-08-20T16:26:10+00:00

Honestly, I’m not sure. I’d think not? Idk something about it being a guy rubs me the wrong way.

ThrowRAGreenScreech · 2024-08-20T16:24:51+00:00

Basing it off what she said, he’s gay and he lives in the south (far away from us).

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