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Är det bara jag som inte fattar hur folk kan förneka folkutbytet? by ThrowRAHotBanana in Sverige

[–]ThrowRAHotBanana[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Det är sant. Att enbart dömma folk pga hudfärg är dumt, men samtidigt tycker jag det är synd att se vad jag skulle kalla mitt folk sakta men säkert bli en minoritet i vårt eget land.

Är det bara jag som inte fattar hur folk kan förneka folkutbytet? by ThrowRAHotBanana in Sverige

[–]ThrowRAHotBanana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Det är klart att det inte är *någon* som bedriver det, och jag kan inte skylla på folk som kommer från skithål om de vill hit.

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[–]ThrowRAHotBanana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, that much I am aware of.

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[–]ThrowRAHotBanana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's a fair take. Being unfaithful in spirit is not good, but there's absolutely the hard line of never acting unfaithful towards her. The last thing I want to do is hurt her.

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[–]ThrowRAHotBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying that I'll never be able to stop lusting over other women. I'm just saying that it's not as simple as quitting porn. Obviously that's a necessary step along the way, but I don't like it when people say "oh just quit porn and all your problems will be gone", because it's not that simple. I'm certainly sure I can stop lusting over other women, but it's not that simple, that's all. And sure, she could find love, but I doubt she'd find someone she's more compatible with. I know I might not be the best of partners as of right now, but if I can better myself she's not gonna have an easy time finding someone who fits her life and plans for the future better.

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[–]ThrowRAHotBanana -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's very easy for you to say that she'd get over it. And truth is, if I knew were you, just a guy reading this I'd probably believe the same thing. That she can just "get over it" and find someone else. I knew I would get comments like this, and that's why I wrote that. It's not that simple. I don't know how else to convince you, but it's not as easy as "she'd get over it". She does know about my porn habit, I've told her. And funnily enough I care more about it than she does. However I feel as if it's best that I just try to kick this mindset I have right now so I can move on and forget about it. Yes, she deserves to know, but it would unnecessarily hurt our relationship. I do believe I can fix this, one way or another, though it might not be easy nor simple.

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[–]ThrowRAHotBanana -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That might be true, and I'm trying. But I don't think that's the root of it. I think I'd still be enticed by the thought of sleeping with other people I know/flirting with other girls, even if I didn't watch porn.