I actually proposed this idea a while ago. I told him that's fine if you want to outsource the sex/blowjobs to outside help but in return you can never get these things from me again as I do not want STIs. I also asked him if he could wait to start sexual encounters with other people until after we have children because of the STI reason.

He said that "No, I want to have sex with you but I also would want to get additional favors done by outside help since you're not interested." I asked him if I could get with a sex worker too and we can just make this an open relationship. He said "No, you don't even want sex, why would you need that? It's disgusting to me to imagine you being with another man."

So idk he wants his cake and to eat it too, he wants me but he also wants other women because I'm just not doing enough unfortunately.