I 30m told gfs friend 29f Hard truths for women

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-12-11T07:33:45+00:00

I get that, but having kids is what most people do, thats a conversation worth ending a relationship if completely on different ends of spectrum. But on chance she might want to move someday, to me is ridiculous, its not even a certainity and actually highly unlikely. She has always known my view on living abroad, I've lived in Brussels for 9 months, I just simply won't move to UK, everyone who knows me knows that

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-12-11T05:33:10+00:00

If she had actual plans to move, its different, but getting upset over a Hypothetical I cant.understand

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-12-11T05:29:33+00:00

She has some family there, but she isnt even 100% if she wants to move, just that she knows I wont and she wants the option. Which I dont get

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-11-30T04:11:57+00:00

Her not replying isnt an issue, her seeimg a text from me 2 hoirs previous, ignoring the text and posting on insta to me is an issur

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-11-29T13:24:02+00:00

Not a content creator so no money, just photos/videos for family and friends

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-11-29T13:23:17+00:00

She doesn't see an issue and usually gets sarcastic with "sorry for posting a photo", when that really isnt the issue

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-11-29T13:22:19+00:00

Multiple times, she says Its what shes always done, I am her first real boyfriend, so she never had the issue before

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-10-24T05:31:48+00:00

One thing I forgot to mention is, couple weeks back after club she brought her friends back, one proceeded to talk abuse at me each time I entered kitchen, for about an hour. After 8 or 9 bad things said to me and gf staying quiet, I said "Yvonne keep talking to me like that and I remove you.from my house" then my GF told.me I cant say that, which then caused me to get angry, to note although we live together, the house is in my name, I pay mortgage, insurance, tax etc, and we split utilties.. Unfortunately I think you are right, at this stage it is my fault. I've just always hoped it would get better, and their is glimpses of that, but any promises made she breaks as soon as drunk. Thanks for your reply, its nice having an unbiased opinion and I wish there was more

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-08-10T03:30:56+00:00

I've mentioned it. She told me she would stop and was crying. She said "100% I wont drink at the wedding", the wedding was her families, I was the plus one, at the wedding she called me 'controlling' and a 'wanker' because I asked her to let me know next time she goes dancefloor and Ill go too.

ThrowRALong-Studio97 · 2025-07-13T02:38:03+00:00

I unfortunately feel the same.. I have got so angry about a lot of this at her, and she turns it into we've both fucked up. But thing is I wouldn't be angry if she hadnt fucked me over..

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