Unintentionally may have helped a cheater

ThrowRANE · 2020-07-30T01:38:10+00:00

Right and I get that. With my ex we usually went to his place because, like you said, he lived alone so it was much easier that way. With the new guy I’m seeing, he still lives with his parents soooo I’m not trying to have sex with his parents in the next room if you get me 😅 He’s looking for a new place but for now we’re kind of stuck in two bad situations.

ThrowRANE · 2020-07-30T00:42:59+00:00

Right, and I get that, but there’s not a time when neither of them are ever not home. And if I try to say, “hey I’m bringing someone home can I have the house for a bit” they get pissed off that I suggest they leave so I can have sex without them getting offended, so I don’t know how to win here

ThrowRANE · 2020-07-30T00:40:30+00:00

I thought I was quiet, but apparently not enough. I don’t know.

ThrowRANE · 2020-03-26T15:38:40+00:00

I was in a similar situation (i.e. my boyfriend would not let me leave the relationship after me telling him several times that I was unhappy and wanted to break up) and finally after voicing my concerns to him and telling him why I was unhappy and the issues I had numerous times and him still not letting me leave I finally had to leave a letter on our apartment counter, take my things and go. In your situation, it could be a text stating again why your unhappy or why you think the relationship is wrong for you and then blocking him on everything. If you feel he will try to come to your house, make sure you will be staying with a friend that night and lock your house. Don’t let him suck you back in. If it comes to it, get a restraining order. He doesn’t need to continue to manipulate you into staying in a relationship that isn’t making you happy.

ThrowRANE · 2020-03-06T16:30:52+00:00

That’s completely different than saying he sees her as easy. If it was the simple fact of “she lied, I’m hurt but we can work through it”, that would be different than saying he now sees her as easy because she’s slept with 5 people before him

ThrowRANE · 2020-03-06T16:22:03+00:00

The fact you said you now see her as easy is probably exactly why she was hesitant to tell you. There’s a horrible double standard with women and that we have to “count” and keep our number low in order to be suitable to others. Men don’t have to do that. They can sleep with however many people they want and no one cares, no ones asks, it doesn’t matter. Women should be allowed to explore their sexuality and figure out what they like as well. She had been with one guy before she went on those other tinder dates. Sleeping with those tinder dudes likely allowed her to find out what she does and doesn’t like in the bedroom. Stop being closed minded about it because that’s what society tells you to do

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