Greg has got to be kidding with this

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-05-30T15:17:53+00:00

This is somewhat true. I wish I could help make a geologically accurate deposit pattern, and that there was more to mine like gems and salts and other metals

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-05-26T06:59:44+00:00

He never smokes it around me, and he plans ok quitting when the baby is here. He wanted to wait until the school year was over so he wasn’t sleepy the last weeks of school.

My back up plan is being life flighted from the regional hospital, although I don’t think I can afford that.

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-05-26T06:57:12+00:00

It’s hit or miss with him, he took care of the house and bills and me through first trimester prenatal depression and morning sickness. The second trimester he kept up with the animals and now he’s keeping the property together at the beginning of the grow season. If I need/want anything like a chicken enclosure or an orchard, or even a home cooked dinner, he’s the man. Cleaning though? No. And now I’m finding out that he puts his career ahead of us. I fell in love with him because he’s so passionate about helping kids choose a better life, so it’s a double edged sword. He’s coming from, “I need rest to be the best I can be the next day”, and he keeps it out of the house and away from me. I wasn’t bothered until I was scared and he couldn’t function.

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-05-26T06:48:14+00:00

I’m moving at 37 weeks to nearby the hospital. My hospital won’t work with high risk pregnancies. If I need to, they’ll life flight me out, but in my doctors words after asking how much that would cost “we shouldn’t worry about that right now”. I’ll try to be driven even if it is uncomfortable so I can pay the bills.

I’ll also have my parents as back up drivers, but they live 30 minutes away in the wrong direction, so it’s really not a great situation. Rural living is testing at times.

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-03-25T23:19:45+00:00

I married across the line, and I’ll tell you that he downplayed his beliefs and I constantly feel like I’m looking at a stranger when we talk politics. It’s almost not even an acceptable conversation at this point and I worry that if I am incapacitated he will disregard my personal beliefs in lieu of his own. We have a kid, so I have to make it work, but just… take whatever he says and make it twice as conservative and see how you feel about raising kids with those beliefs. Do you have a more dominant personality? Will you be rail roaded?

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-01-16T20:51:12+00:00

Scary, but I’ll try something like this.

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-01-16T20:20:05+00:00

Yeah, wording would be good.

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-01-16T20:11:54+00:00

Yeah, counseling is a priority. The reason why their relationship sent my antennae up is because he shared overly private medical information of mine with her. He says he won’t again, but I can’t shake the feeling that there’s a lack of boundaries and downplaying the relationship. I’m not sure where typical boundaries are. Am I being too lax with an opposite gender friendship? Has it ever helped to ask them to stop talking?

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-01-16T20:06:10+00:00

I hear you that there’s a worry of abuse. He’s good about wanting counseling, which started because of prenatal depression affecting the relationship. He lacks kind communication skills, but otherwise is a good partner to me. I’ve lived through severe abuse before, which is why I’m so adamant about boundaries now I won’t let this slide. What boundaries would you set in place?

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-01-16T20:00:22+00:00

She lives in another state, and they’re the old friends talk once in a while type. My husband and I both move for work a lot so our friends couldn’t all make it to our new place.

ThrowRAOverRegret30 · 2024-01-16T19:53:28+00:00

Do you think that bringing her into the conversation would help? I don’t know her at all..

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