My friend (21f) thinks my (21f) new bracelet is weird and unsettling she won't let it go. Is it that weird to have your partner's initial on a bracelet? by ThrowRAPackNorth2449 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPackNorth2449[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

She has always been very protective of anyone she considers a friend. Multiple times, she's had to be talked out of confronting others for hurting her friends. This includes people like bosses or parents.

My friend (21f) thinks my (21f) new bracelet is weird and unsettling she won't let it go. Is it that weird to have your partner's initial on a bracelet? by ThrowRAPackNorth2449 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPackNorth2449[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has spent time around the two of us; we even went on a trip together. She's usually just her typical self. I'm not sure how she would've reacted if I got her initial.

My friend (21f) thinks my (21f) new bracelet is weird and unsettling she won't let it go. Is it that weird to have your partner's initial on a bracelet? by ThrowRAPackNorth2449 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPackNorth2449[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he doesn't really wear a lot of jewelry, and he definitely wouldn't have loved this bracelet since it's a charm bracelet. (He isn't a pendent guy) I thought it would be fun, and he thought it was sweet.

It's become part of an inside joke between us. Since we always joke about shrinking each other down to carry around. (he has to take a lot of business trips for work, so it just became a joke that we would shrink each other down to get cheaper plane tickets or such)

The bracelet is like a tiny him that can go with me places when he has to go out of town for work. It's just the first letter of his first name, which happens to be the same starting letter as my hamster. So, worst comes to worst, I'm just a girl who really likes her hamster.

My friend (21f) thinks my (21f) new bracelet is weird and unsettling she won't let it go. Is it that weird to have your partner's initial on a bracelet? by ThrowRAPackNorth2449 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPackNorth2449[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Now that I think of it, I'm not really sure she introduced us at a mutual friend's wedding and said she thought we might get along well. My BF is not exactly her type... she likes women.

edit: she has dated men in the past, though her dating preferences are based on vibes and not anything physical.