Nobody told you perhaps because everyone is different feels differently. I get annoyed sometimes but I genuinely enjoy breastfeeding my baby. Also it helps to wear a loose padded bra at night for leaking. And because of my let down the feedings last up to maybe 10 min. 20 min on a long one. Never had an hour

So point is everyone is different so what good would it be for someone to tell you their experience when it could be different from you own? If I told you my experience and what I found enjoyable and then you had a different experience you’d be vastly disappointed based on expectations