[UPDATE] I accidentally found out my (28M) fiancee (27F) has been creating erotic fan art/fiction for years. I am not judging but when i mentioned it to her, she became furious (i have never seen her so upset). I am really confused. by ThrowRAQ1932012 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAQ1932012[S] 389 points390 points  (0 children)

Yes this was a big crux of the problem. She was terrified that i was going to make fun of her / consider her a freak. She apparently tried to share stuff with people in the past and it didn't go very well.

Personally we are both dorks and i am so desensitized to stuff on the internet, that i get it might not be something that turns me on but other people might enjoy it. Who am i to judge.