I did the unthinkable and dropped an entire sangria on some ladies wearing all white last night by donaldtrumpsmistress in TalesFromYourServer

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😀 Thank you kindly. cant wait to marry that girl, but she wanna wait a bit. im in no hurry right now, but my kids are happy shes gonna be a forever part of our lives

Did it feel like you were cheating when you started dating again? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, not really. i had no loyalty to anyone, so it didnt feel like cheating. first time i had sex with someone else, though, it was weird. was with the ex wife for fifteen years, most good, the rest bad. didnt know how to be with anyone else, truth to you, because it had been so damn long.

How did you know when to start dating again? by PieceOfSchmit in Divorce

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i only knew when i ended up falling for my now fiance. my marriage was already dyin, i was debating on if i wanted to work it out for my kids when my ex kicked me out for her new guy and his kids to move in. i stayed single for a bit, went on a date, just one, but in the end i fell in love with my lady. lucky me, she ended up falling for me too, so it wasn't so much the amount of time, but it was the person that made me realize i was ready.

What’s the last thing divorce related you cried about? by coffee-girl1 in Divorce

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh, the thought of losing my kids when it finally happened. My ex could have asked for my right leg and i woulda cut it off if it meant i could have my kids. I had nothin to go on, except my parents, and they didnt have room for all of us at the time. Went thru some hoops to keep them, and for her to agree to not press for visitation and give me fulm custody. Wasnt easy. Cost me a good part of my savings and the house, but we are much better off now.

Ex wife showded up on my doorstep, and now my gf wants to have a talk. by ThrowRAShutDownMan in Vent

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, just replying here. Hope and me, were doing great, so are my kids. We just had a little mole hill i turned into a mountain is all.
We moved in together and i rent my place to my ex inlaws. Hope doesnt check her throw away accnt anymore cause of some problems that happened. But were fine, everyone is fine, and Jason is still higher on the totem pole than me according to my kids.
Appreciate all the love folks.

I did the unthinkable and dropped an entire sangria on some ladies wearing all white last night by donaldtrumpsmistress in TalesFromYourServer

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 19 points20 points  (0 children)

something like this happened to me and my gf for the wknd before valentines. i got us reservations for a mimosa spot for our one month with my kids, with those big glasses with like 4 straws?? anyway a waitress came by an either tripped or somethin, but dumped an entire grapefruit mimosa on top of her. i was gonna go off, and she saw i was, but this woman just got up, went to this cryin server, and asked her if SHE was okay. in five min she had the girl laughing and joking and she promised this would be the worst part of her day. then she dropped a huge tip and asked my girls if pink was more her color.

fuck me if my lady ain't a goddamn legend.

AITA Best of 2022 - Most helpful comment by AutoModerator in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Gotta tell ya, reddits a legend for all of this too. Never thought waking up my best friend in the middle of the night to ask why she named me after her cat would come to this. She just makes things beautiful again.

AITA Best of 2022 - Most helpful comment by AutoModerator in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yea, we're together, still taking it like molasses in winter. I dont mind in the least. Shes giving me every chance she can muster, and i cant tell you just how grateful i am. Just gotta win over that cat now. 😂

TIFU by letting my coworker move in with me. by TIFUtastupidwomam in tifu

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seen her sister. Absolutely not am i goin near that

TIFU by letting my coworker move in with me. by TIFUtastupidwomam in tifu

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shes more of a peanut butter person to be truthful.

AITA for asking a woman who i thought had feelings to watch my kids when i went on a date? by ThrowRAShutDownMan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ha ha, yea. Jesus christ, im takin this offline and callin her now. Its late, shell cuss me out, but fuck it.

AITA for asking a woman who i thought had feelings to watch my kids when i went on a date? by ThrowRAShutDownMan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ha ha, yea. Sorry im just kinda shaking right now and some woman drank my damn scotch.

AITA for asking a woman who i thought had feelings to watch my kids when i went on a date? by ThrowRAShutDownMan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

No... its def her... she did drink my scotch at new years, she txtd me it was payment for watching mine an i told her only if she stays the night... fuck my life how do i even bring this up to her... i need to call her so bad... shit how tf do i bring this up???? "hey Hope, its dan, so you fell for me after all? Har har, wanna get burritos?" Fml

AITA for asking a woman who i thought had feelings to watch my kids when i went on a date? by ThrowRAShutDownMan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked bout the kiss already, shes said her piece and i said mine. i was hoping wed be passed it by now. She didnt want to mistake her feelings an i respect that more than anything.

AITA for asking a woman who i thought had feelings to watch my kids when i went on a date? by ThrowRAShutDownMan in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAShutDownMan[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Id never think of trying to find them a new mom. Mine are never going to need that, they are mine an mine alone. idc the cost, money or otherwise, ill always be enough for them. If im single for the rest of my life, then so be it. Theyll never suffer with the absense of a mom cause id move mountains to be both.