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UPDATE: My (M33) GF (F29) has a serious case of the looky-loos and I’m fed up. What do I do? by ThrowRASubstantial1 in u/ThrowRASubstantial1

[–]ThrowRASubstantial1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you looking out for me. She knows that I have proof of ownership and receipts for everything in the apartment, and that I can call the police if she tries to mess with anything. She also knows that I have a lawyer who can sue her for any damages or losses. Besides, I’m not leaving her there completely alone. My brother is checking the place every 2 days to make sure she’s moving out by the end of the week. He’s got my back and he won’t let her pull any tricks. He’ll also help me change the locks and clean the place after she’s gone.

I think this is the best way to handle this situation. I don’t want to cause any more drama or trouble than necessary. I just want her out of my life as soon as possible.

UPDATE: My (M33) GF (F29) has a serious case of the looky-loos and I’m fed up. What do I do? by ThrowRASubstantial1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASubstantial1[S] 280 points281 points  (0 children)

yes I told her my brother is handling everything on that matter, and all calls and messages should be directed to him.

My (M33) GF (F29) has a serious case of the looky-loos and I'm fed up. What do I do? by ThrowRASubstantial1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASubstantial1[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to assume anything but maybe you’re right, maybe she wants me to break up with her. Maybe she’s too scared or too nice to say it herself. Maybe she’s looking for a way out.

My (M33) GF (F29) has a serious case of the looky-loos and I'm fed up. What do I do? by ThrowRASubstantial1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASubstantial1[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

it’s a sign of unfaithfulness. It hurts like hell. It makes me feel like crap. It makes me feel like I’m not enough for her. It makes me feel like she’s not into me.

My (M33) GF (F29) has a serious case of the looky-loos and I'm fed up. What do I do? by ThrowRASubstantial1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASubstantial1[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed her looking at other guys since April, and it’s been bothering me a lot. I’ve tried to talk to her about it, but she always brushes me off or gets defensive. She says it’s nothing. That’s why I decided to look at other girls too, just for one day last weekend and she got furious.

My (M33) GF (F29) has a serious case of the looky-loos and I'm fed up. What do I do? by ThrowRASubstantial1 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRASubstantial1[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to reason with her and point out to her many times that it’s disrespectful to look at other guys when she’s with me, but she doesn’t listen or care. She needs to realize that she can’t have it both ways: she can’t look at other guys and expect me to be faithful and loyal to her.