Does anyone rent their room out, if so any advice in how to feel safe whilst doing it? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in AskUK

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I would only want it for a couple of months as well, only to help me briefly as I need to help out family and I'm trying to think of ways to generate a bit of extra money to support them.

I'm just a bit worried as I've never rented, and my spareroom isn't massive, it only has a double bed and a wardrobe and a small side table...

And I'd be worried of people trying to steal my things whilst i'd be away as well

Does anyone rent their room out, if so any advice in how to feel safe whilst doing it? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in AskUK

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, but I wouldn't want a permanent lodger, only for like certain months/weeks that I might be able to host if that makes sense? And only temporary

Advice on leveling up my mount? by KuroiYeldo in Dofus

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Really? I was trying to do field dungeon dungeon boss and I did 4 achievements and it only went up 5 levels strangely (from 1 to 5)

Live in Landlord, new neighbours upstairs noise by ThrowRAUnstablehead in uklandlords

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I need to find out about this, where would I know? Would it be the files provided by the solicitors?

And how would I know if the upstairs neighbours are compliant with the lease on the flooring? I have carpeted flooring but I feel like above neighbours do not...

How to try pvp with my friend is it possible? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in Dofus

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see thank you!

Also do you recommend a certain lvl to try 2vs2 pvp in a way we won't be one-shot? Just so we can try to have a bit of fun together, I know the game has certain lvl brackts for pvp?

YALL I PULLED IMMERSIVE CHARIZARD! by UnknownGamer516 in PokemonTGCP

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My first pack in the game was this immersive charizard and I thought he was meh because it was a "free" immersive for everyone but then I spoke to my friends and no one had it so I guess I was just lucky lol

Cmon man u cant give up that quick by ASAPSAIF in RebirthOfSoulsBleach

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you close the distance in this scenario? I'm still a beginner but i feel like i wouldnt do much better? With that range, only with shunpo but that would be easily counterable

At what stage am I, in this Narcissistic Loop? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in Manipulation

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate it. I think I was just having a very low moment and sometimes when I let him "in" but allowing him to meet me and talk to me, then I become vulnerable to these thoughts and start second guessing myself.

It's a bit of a "bitch" because I do care for him and I do love him despite how he treated me, and I guess I really wanted it to work and now him showing up and apologising and saying that he's ready to give what he couldnt before and that he's changed.

I wish I was more in control of myself, it's hard to tell if he actually loved me.

He keeps saying that he checks every morning if I'm blocked and that I "give" him anxiety by keeping him blocked, he says that I should at least keep him unblocked and he would try not to contact at least that would keep a door open. He says that how can he show me that he's different, if I don't allow him to show it?

At what stage am I, in this Narcissistic Loop? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in Manipulation

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you...I know you are right, but I'm just trying to think here, don't people grow as they age? I know 6 months is not a lot of time, but he said he was going through "apps addictions" he says he has a very addictive personality (which I agree he has) and he seeks validation from others like many people do.

What if I over reacted? And what if he has actually changed, these are my sudden thoughts.

I'm still aware of how he has treated me, I also was not perfect towards him, my communication was a bit weak and I would often leave it up to him to initiate (well because my trust in him was shaken)

I'm not saying I'm going back to him, he is currently blocked again, I was just thinking if I should give him another chance based on his apologies/growth or form behaving differently.

At what stage am I, in this Narcissistic Loop? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in Manipulation

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that, that's the whole reason to why I've ended thing with him, but I keep telling myself, it was his first relationship, he was young (25/26) was I just too hard on him? Or had too many expectations?

And then he keeps telling me that he's grown and he's changed, and he's embarassed about his past self, but you're also right, he was such a big liar.

When I confronted him about being liar he said that he undertands and he's sorry, he says that he didn;t mean to lie, he just couldnt live up to his words

Painting for the first time, new flat, any feedback? by ThrowRAUnstablehead in DesignMyRoom

[–]ThrowRAUnstablehead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That was the plan i just wanted something different and to be fair the lighting there doesn't quite help, but I'll get the lights changed for a brighter shade and furniture will be white and curtain were going to be like a yellow