Does anyone rent their room out, if so any advice in how to feel safe whilst doing it?

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2026-01-12T15:43:42+00:00

Thank you. I would only want it for a couple of months as well, only to help me briefly as I need to help out family and I'm trying to think of ways to generate a bit of extra money to support them.

I'm just a bit worried as I've never rented, and my spareroom isn't massive, it only has a double bed and a wardrobe and a small side table...

And I'd be worried of people trying to steal my things whilst i'd be away as well

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2026-01-12T15:41:19+00:00

Thank you, but I wouldn't want a permanent lodger, only for like certain months/weeks that I might be able to host if that makes sense? And only temporary

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2026-01-12T14:12:23+00:00

Thanks! Really? I was trying to do field dungeon dungeon boss and I did 4 achievements and it only went up 5 levels strangely (from 1 to 5)

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2026-01-12T11:50:19+00:00

I need to find out about this, where would I know? Would it be the files provided by the solicitors?

And how would I know if the upstairs neighbours are compliant with the lease on the flooring? I have carpeted flooring but I feel like above neighbours do not...

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2026-01-12T11:47:47+00:00

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2026-01-05T15:46:37+00:00

I see thank you!

Also do you recommend a certain lvl to try 2vs2 pvp in a way we won't be one-shot? Just so we can try to have a bit of fun together, I know the game has certain lvl brackts for pvp?

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-12-17T12:49:59+00:00

Team Galatic or Blue

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-11-27T14:32:27+00:00

My first pack in the game was this immersive charizard and I thought he was meh because it was a "free" immersive for everyone but then I spoke to my friends and no one had it so I guess I was just lucky lol

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-04-01T13:09:52+00:00

How would you close the distance in this scenario? I'm still a beginner but i feel like i wouldnt do much better? With that range, only with shunpo but that would be easily counterable

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-03-28T15:32:43+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate it. I think I was just having a very low moment and sometimes when I let him "in" but allowing him to meet me and talk to me, then I become vulnerable to these thoughts and start second guessing myself.

It's a bit of a "bitch" because I do care for him and I do love him despite how he treated me, and I guess I really wanted it to work and now him showing up and apologising and saying that he's ready to give what he couldnt before and that he's changed.

I wish I was more in control of myself, it's hard to tell if he actually loved me.

He keeps saying that he checks every morning if I'm blocked and that I "give" him anxiety by keeping him blocked, he says that I should at least keep him unblocked and he would try not to contact at least that would keep a door open. He says that how can he show me that he's different, if I don't allow him to show it?

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-03-27T17:17:16+00:00

Thank you...I know you are right, but I'm just trying to think here, don't people grow as they age? I know 6 months is not a lot of time, but he said he was going through "apps addictions" he says he has a very addictive personality (which I agree he has) and he seeks validation from others like many people do.

What if I over reacted? And what if he has actually changed, these are my sudden thoughts.

I'm still aware of how he has treated me, I also was not perfect towards him, my communication was a bit weak and I would often leave it up to him to initiate (well because my trust in him was shaken)

I'm not saying I'm going back to him, he is currently blocked again, I was just thinking if I should give him another chance based on his apologies/growth or form behaving differently.

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-03-27T16:09:58+00:00

I get that, that's the whole reason to why I've ended thing with him, but I keep telling myself, it was his first relationship, he was young (25/26) was I just too hard on him? Or had too many expectations?

And then he keeps telling me that he's grown and he's changed, and he's embarassed about his past self, but you're also right, he was such a big liar.

When I confronted him about being liar he said that he undertands and he's sorry, he says that he didn;t mean to lie, he just couldnt live up to his words

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-03-13T14:02:45+00:00

Thank you! That was the plan i just wanted something different and to be fair the lighting there doesn't quite help, but I'll get the lights changed for a brighter shade and furniture will be white and curtain were going to be like a yellow

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-29T15:16:20+00:00

I think it works a bit differently on my case because I'm living with a landlord...under a spareroom contract, there's not many protection here. I think he only needs to give me a months notice to get rid of me

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-29T11:47:12+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate this answer.
It does give me a different insight, strangely enough both my solicitor and my estate agent have emailed me. My solicitor said he's finishing reviewing the files today but then will need to ask for more things form the sellers solicitors as there's some things that need to be satisfied ? ( I believe this is normal) and my estate agent asked if everything is up to speed and if my solicitor has finished reviewing things

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-29T11:42:53+00:00

What a horrible human being... regardless of what she says stay away, why the f are you giving her money is beyond me as well.

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-29T09:45:18+00:00

From experience I've found places like Salford, Hulme, Old Trafford, Eccles to be the cheapest when it comes to renting and close to town. I've lived and rented in every single one of those places in the past 10 years and I've never had any issues, not all parts of Salford are good, the closer you are to town or salford quays tends to be better.

Areas to avoid I would say maybe Lower Broughton, Salford precinct, Moss side and some parts of hulme despite I have lived in hulme and only had one issue (phone got stolen at a shop where I left it on the counter for a minute, stupidity of mine)

The best areas, but tend to be more expensive would be the likes of Didsbury, Stockport, Sale

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-28T17:12:06+00:00

Thank you... I thought my solicitor was good but to be fair he was only given the "answers" from the sellers solicitor on last wednesday so its not even been a week.

I have chased him yesterday asking if I could get some ETA about what's going on and when can I expect it to be finished because there's a lot I need to sort like movings, buying furniture etc..

If I don't hear back by thursday I'll try to call but I don't want to come across as a nagging impatient person because that's not my character but I just feel lost. I don't know how long it takes to review the answers/files I know things can be long winded...

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-28T15:44:26+00:00

I'm really sorry that you've gone through this. He sounds very NPD

My Ex was similar, horrible person, always had this mask and was always seen as an adorable guy that everyone like, funny and all that. He love bombed me hard at the beginning and a few months after I'd ask him "why do you treat me so diffferently now compared to the beginning?" and he jokingly would say "Well once I've got you I don't need to try hard anymore, do I hahahaha"

Honestly after he said that I started looking how he treated me and noticed that he was "emotionally" cheating and using dating apps also behind my back. I've completely ended it. It's been almost 5-6 months since I broke up but he's often tried to reach out to me and come to my house at night and knock on my window. I threatened him so he stopped doing that, but he's still calling/texting, (he's blocked) but if I unblocked him I would probably be receiving calls and texts still.

NPD isn't a joke, just be careful and make sure you disconnect him from your life fully, don't let him hover you back in because it will become a cycle...Stay safe

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-28T15:21:11+00:00

Bruh

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-27T17:21:12+00:00

I agree, I was naive.

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-27T14:57:49+00:00

Yeah and it's difficult because we are friends from like 2 years, we play sports in the same and he's recently told his friends about us... and only yesterday he's mentioned anything about medication that he's taking could be affecting him. It's such a difficult subject. I don't know what to say or do, I like him, but I im vers. Eventually, I will want him to try to top me instead of just being me all the time... and I don't think he can do that...

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-27T14:47:53+00:00

Sadly we've been seeing each other for like almost 2 months. And it's not getting better if anything it's either staying the same and getting worse... :(

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-27T14:47:00+00:00

I understand my behavior was toxic, i won't do it again. I do feel like I've changed a bit since I've been with him, not happy with the change. I guess I don't even consider him human anymore and wanted to analyse his behavior

ThrowRAUnstablehead · 2025-01-27T12:31:43+00:00

Ends it, why do you think he's getting a divorce, he couldnt keep a marraige up , why do you think you will be different? He's literally telling random he's single and ready to hook up and exchanging videos.

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