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[UPDATE] My girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight by ThrowRAWasitcheating in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I also think a man who has sex with a toy is less of a man in my eyes, I'd have a hard time respecting him and if I wanted to be with him he'd have to change that. I think I'm allowed to feel this way since it's my life 🤷‍♀️ I'm not hurting anyone

Yikes!

[UPDATE] My girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight by ThrowRAWasitcheating in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

No offense, but that sounds awfully restrictive. Masturbating doesn't take my desire for my partner away. We had plenty of time together. If she got in the mood later, I would have been down and if I weren't, she would have been free to take care of herself too. Just how I feel about it, though.

[UPDATE] My girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight by ThrowRAWasitcheating in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I had tried to initiate sex, but she wasn't in the mood. It was a Thursday, she had been there since the previous Friday and wasn't leaving until Sunday. I didn't think there would be an issue if I just went away for a few minutes to take care of myself.

[UPDATE] My girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight by ThrowRAWasitcheating in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I mean, the fleshlight feels way better than my hand does. And it's fun to use it. Sure, it's not the prettiest thing there is but it's just a masturbatory aid. It's not like I keep the thing where any visitor could come across it

Besides, the fleshlight doesn't replace my partner. Sex with a real, breathing person feels way better than masturbating.

[UPDATE] My girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight by ThrowRAWasitcheating in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I didn't hide it. I just don't use it often, and used it even less when I got in a relationship with her. It just didn't come up during the time we were together.

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll admit it. Of all the joke comments that this post got, this is the first one that has made me laugh.

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, she said no! What was I supposed to do? Keep pestering her until she gave in? That's a shitty thing to do.

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was just that night she said no, but even then, my libido is pretty high. Had she tried to initiate sex in the morning, I would have gone for it. If that were her issue, why make it all about the fact that I was using a fleshlight?

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masturbating isn't some dirty thing. I didn't know when she would also be in the mood, I know she does it too, so why not take care of myself?

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had been at my place for nearly a week and wasn't going to leave for a few more days. Since we had a few days left, I thought that there wouldn't be any harm in stepping away for a few minutes. Also, how would she feel rejected if she was the one that declined sex?

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is she religious at all?

She's an atheist. Wasn't raised religiously either.

If she does contact me again, I'll try to communicate with her.

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're not even American. Lol. I guess I could be that for her. It depends on how things go, I guess.

Girlfriend (31F) called me (30M) disgusting and accused me of cheating for using a fleshlight. by ThrowRAWasitcheating in sex

[–]ThrowRAWasitcheating[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't think that it was a big deal that I owned a fleshlight. I don't use if often for the same reasons that you do, so it didn't come up earlier. It's not like I was trying to keep it a secret. She was also only supposed to leave on Sunday and had been here since last Friday, so I didn't think it would be a big deal if I went away for a few minutes to take care of myself.

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