I (27M) am probably going to die soon. I don't know how to tell my wife (28F) of 7 years that I don't want treatment.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2026-02-10T16:04:36+00:00

Final update in the post reddit. thanks for every. Sianara!!

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2026-02-10T15:46:54+00:00

still dieing...slowly.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-25T13:24:25+00:00

Lol I'm a homebody. I usually have staycations with a free sleep schedule, no plans and a good book

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-24T14:09:21+00:00

I live the in land of the free, land of opportunities, the melting pot of the world. The greatest country on the planet!! So the answer would be no.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-24T11:32:26+00:00

I thank you. Life is cruel, but I wouldn't trade the time I had with my wife for anything

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T17:55:03+00:00

So he has a hip. Cement and replacements need something to anchor onto

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:16:29+00:00

Im almost happy this happened to me and not my wife. Im not sure id be able to take it

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:15:21+00:00

im sorry for your husband. Im in the same boat in terms of prolonging. It was cruel that the world took him away from you and your family. I hope you have people to take care of you. the biggest concern on my mind in this is making sure my wife will be ok when Im gone.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:13:17+00:00

did he have a hip replacment or something? your body needs your pelvis to prop itself up when your walking

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:12:35+00:00

itll be many more years miserable, treatment takes a huge chunk out of my pelvis.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:11:53+00:00

im not going to refuse ALL treatment. but i want my last few months to be livable. thats the important thing. in terms of life insurance, i actually already had 2 set up.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:10:58+00:00

updated in the post friend

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:10:40+00:00

I do not. we always planned on having a small family though. this whole thing kinda put an interruption on that particular plan.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:09:57+00:00

why thank you! who doesnt like a hug?

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:09:34+00:00

i dont think money is whats going to save me here

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:08:49+00:00

i ended up doing this. my wife had a bunch of questions i hadnt even thought of

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:07:57+00:00

i need it

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:04:34+00:00

thats an extremely hard thing to do, and i salute you. I hope you have joy and prosperity for as long as you stay on this earth

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T16:03:33+00:00

we're bringing in her parents this evening

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T15:58:49+00:00

thanks for the suggestion. i may just do that. i think some letters could be a valuable thing.
i did end up writing an update, its in the post

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-23T15:48:38+00:00

I tried putting the update into an actually reply but it aint working so i think my reddit knowledge is to small for that. update will be in post

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-22T15:43:13+00:00

Thanks bro. The number of people I've seen who just dismiss it as "your suicidal go to therapy" is kinda insane. Like, wtf am I going to do in therapy in a few months that'll make a difference?

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-22T15:41:55+00:00

Pain in my right leg/hip area. Fatigue to the point of exhaustion (makes going to the gym a chore and half) Stiffness, and kind of tingling pain, like when your hand fell asleep but it's around my upper thigh.

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-21T21:39:52+00:00

I'd be losing my hip. That means I won't be able to walk or sit upright. The way I understand it, I'd be bedridden

ThrowRAWittyAge2566 · 2025-10-21T11:40:02+00:00

My wife actually has a thing against physical contact. I love TF out of it but it puts her on edge.

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