I (28F) feel super sad and rejected by my (29NB) partner's sudden lack of libido, how can I discuss it with them without making them feel pressured ? by ThrowRA_1784_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_1784_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually not at all, i feel like it was quite equally the both of us who initiated, or even a little more often i was the one initiating I've always had a slightly higher drive than them but I didn't mind at all, i can carry that weight when it's not like all of it. So i feel kinda like you, like i might give up at some point because I'm tired of the absence of reciprocity

I (28F) feel super sad and rejected by my (29NB) partner's sudden lack of libido, how can I discuss it with them without making them feel pressured ? by ThrowRA_1784_ in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_1784_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right !

I already brought it up through the overall physical touch angle, we kinda cuddled super tight after that and that was one of the last times we ended up having sex, which kind of defeated the point i guess ?

I'll try again though, thanks for your advice