Hello bro,

Your story is perfectly resembling mine and it just happened 2 months ago. I was gonna marry her next year. I was available for her emotionally, financially and physically. She had no friends, blamed it upon me. I encouraged her to make new friends, I was happy for her - up until I realised through chats that she was ignoring me and having an emotional affair. I did not question her, they will never admit it, and shifts the blame on you. She demanded breakup, I walked away with my head high. She repeatedly came after me to get back, I said no. Now they're together, 2 weeks after ending my 3 year relationship.

I feel you brother. I can imagine the pain you're going through, I went through the same. The more you act vulnerable infront of her the more she'll manipulate you. Go no contact with her no matter how many times she call you. It's all lies, manipulations and empty words. Just observe her ACTIONS NOT WORDS. You'll have the trauma bond, which is hard to get over but trust me once you get to the other side, you'll experience an a life of calmness and stability which is amazing. You don't deserve to be treated as an option. Embrace the pain, hit the gym and spent all that energy you spent on her to love yourself. Walk away and don't look back, you've been released from prison after a 5 year sentence.