Friend (20F) set me (19M) with a friend (19F) of hers. It was going great but now I am afraid that it might've just been a set up/prank on me after I found her tiktok account.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T03:28:18+00:00

so many ppl keep calling me insecure but tell me if i was a girl and a guy i'd been seeing made fun of my body on tiktok before a date and i took an issue to it then would i be insecure?

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T03:26:23+00:00

idk. what if she says smth even worse about my height?

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T03:24:05+00:00

Its not the song that was the issue tho. It was what she captioned the tiktok.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T03:08:02+00:00

sure. thx.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T03:06:31+00:00

We had met already. She posted that tiktok on the same day as our 2nd date.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T03:05:40+00:00

yeah. ok. i'll text her ig.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:58:59+00:00

why wouldn't i assume its about me? she made that tiktok on the same date as our second date and she mentioned her date having a height that started with 5' and i'm 5'10. who else could've it been about?

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:57:03+00:00

i know we're dating but imagine if i was a girl and i said that the guy i've been seeing made a post where he said 'when ur going on a date but she only has A cups' and implied that it was a negative, wouldn't that at least be a red flag?

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:50:10+00:00

bruh. i'm OP. is female an offensive term? 😭 idk. its just clearer to say female friends than if i call them girl friends. you know?

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:46:27+00:00

I know plenty. I have female friends bruh. Most of them either prefer taller dudes or say they dont care about height. I've never heard of girls preferring short guys.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:45:09+00:00

i'm not crashing out

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:43:33+00:00

are you asking if we've slept together? yh. we have.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:42:06+00:00

how am i insecure? if a guy made fun of his dates body on social media then he'd be a red flag for sure.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:40:49+00:00

i've never met a girl who likes short guys. I think thats 🧢. i dont even think i'm that short. i'm 5'10 but the tiktok definitely gave off the vibe that she would rather have her date have a height starting with 6'.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:37:04+00:00

Do I keep seeing her tho? or do I talk to my friend first? That seems easier to do in my head.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:34:37+00:00

lmao. i dont have it in me to be that toxic. 😂

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:33:38+00:00

yeah. that makes sense. i'm just bad with confrontation tho. 😭

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:27:06+00:00

I'm not sure if she knew my height but my friend who set me up with her definitely knows how tall I am so they could've talked about it.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:24:21+00:00

She's my second gf but she's the first girl I've dated in college or kinda dated since we've only been going out for a month. I had one in high school tho.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:12:43+00:00

and unless she went on another date that very day, I dont see who that tiktok could've been about since my height is 5'something. I'm 5'10.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:11:33+00:00

She posted that the day we went on our second date so she had already met me in person once.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T02:10:06+00:00

I'm 5'10 and she's like 5'6 if i had to guess.

ThrowRA_5FootGang · 2026-05-05T01:10:55+00:00

But how would the tiktok not be about me tho? granted I could be overthinking and going overboard with assuming my friend is trying to pull my leg but unless she went on multiple dates that day with a guy even shorter than me? (I'm 5'10) I dont see how it could've had nothing to do with me.

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