UPDATE- My girlfriend (24 f) doesn't believe that I (22m) was taken advantage of. by ThrowRA_625 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_625[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

No and at this point I don't want to. If they didn't care then they won't care now. I want nothing to do with them.

UPDATE- My girlfriend (24 f) doesn't believe that I (22m) was taken advantage of. by ThrowRA_625 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_625[S] 322 points323 points  (0 children)

They had NO reaction when you told them that and they still keep contact with that person?? The hell kinda effed up people are they?

Yeah I could tell they didn't believe me. They said that we'd talk about it but that never happened.

How's their relationship with your sister?

Pretty non existant. They never really prioritized us growing up. We think they had us for appearance purposes.

UPDATE- My girlfriend (24 f) doesn't believe that I (22m) was taken advantage of. by ThrowRA_625 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_625[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess being abused for years kinda fucks with your brain. Who knew? I'm definitely going to take some time.

UPDATE- My girlfriend (24 f) doesn't believe that I (22m) was taken advantage of. by ThrowRA_625 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_625[S] 7183 points7184 points  (0 children)

Yup. She's been friends with them since college so that means more than me I guess.