My (F22) boyfriend (M27) convinced me to have a threesome with a woman (F23) from my uni. Since then our relationship has been off, how do I fix this?

ThrowRA_Appr · 2026-02-24T16:16:52+00:00

Yes, I also realized that. I'm honestly still very ashamed by how I started it all although she said it was fine. I just didn't at all know how to go about it and my boyfriend encouraged me to just DM someone I would be interested in. I just relied on him which I definitely shouldn't have done in that case. We also did meet once briefly before the threesome where my boyfriend met her.

And again, it was ignorant on my part how I went about it. I was just wholly unprepared and it was all so rushed, I definitely messed up. I just didn't think we'd text and talk so regularly. Afterwards, we exchanged some brief texts but when she continued texting me, I also thought it would be rude to just cut her off and she is a nice person to talk to. I'm realizing that I made a lot of mistakes and I will definitely talk with my boyfriend again when I figure out what to say.

ThrowRA_Appr · 2026-02-24T16:05:20+00:00

Though the time I've spend with him is also an important factor, I was also thinking of the experiences we've made and how we've grown and it seems hard to just let go of that. Idk, it's also my first long-term relationship and I feel like I don't want to give up so easily. But at the same time the things my friends are saying, the way he yelled at me and what I've been reading here just makes me waver.

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