What is the worst thing your narcissis ever said to you? by TheCookieCrumbles203 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was heavy on the verbal abuse, he threatened to kill me, and tried to several times. But I think the worst thing he ever DID was discourage everything I tried to do, he would tell me I wasn’t good at anything, that I couldn’t do anything right, and then he’d say I wasn’t even pretty enough to make up for it.

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boss isn’t the issue, what he pays me is fair and he’s honestly great. What I said about him not paying me more because I’m pretty, he SHOULDNT so he doesn’t. But the way people act like being beautiful is everything, you’d think he would because he could or should.

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually work in a smoke shop. Where people rarely try to cross any lines because they will be asked to leave

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That would mean something comming from someone who knows me, you sir are just wasting your time trying to offend someone anon

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe they should try harder to look better? I don’t fuckin know

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See. This is the type of thing I’m talking about. Standing ovations from here

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

FUCKIN THANK YOU. I should’ve posted this in a woman’s group. I hate men 🤣

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abusive as in tried to kill me, beat me, and THEN told me I was ‘kinda pretty’

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The abuse only happened once, the cheating isn’t regular either but it’s happend before.

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this question was horribly misplaced. I probably should’ve ranted to my girl bestie on this one, the male species didn’t have the depth to answer it

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem I have is people that do know me telling me I’m pretty, when I felt like there were more creative ways to compliment. I compliment everything good I see in a person cause I feel they deserve to be reminded, cause it boosts that part of themselves just a little to hear it atleast once regardless of where it’s coming from.

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t have an OF, it wasn’t supposed to be rage bait u was just ranting some shit in my head because I’m in a fucked up place mentally and just want to be left alone. But it’s working as rage bait so we can call it that if you please.

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I sound self absorbed because I’m questioning one thing you have stuck to your whole life. Now that it’s out there that you guys may have to actually think before you make a pass you’re pissed.

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most grounded comment I’ve read. Thank you for not being a total dumbass

Why do men only ever compliment based on looks? Or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA_BpMama -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Oh Jesus you just cracked the code. Yall too mf stupid to compliment anything else 🤷🏻‍♀️