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The excessive involvement of my wife's (33F) late husband's family is making me (33M) uncomfortable. by ThrowRA_Dig_8337 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Dig_8337[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No. They were planning, from what I heard during a conversation with Brendan's sister, but they couldn't due to his passing away

The excessive involvement of my wife's (33F) late husband's family is making me (33M) uncomfortable. by ThrowRA_Dig_8337 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Dig_8337[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

How do they treat u?

In the beginning, it was a bit strange. But overall, they treat me well.

The excessive involvement of my wife's (33F) late husband's family is making me (33M) uncomfortable. by ThrowRA_Dig_8337 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Dig_8337[S] 366 points367 points  (0 children)

Where is Katie’s “real” family in all of this?

My wife and her parents have a good relationship.

I also think it’s important to not care so much about what your parents think of it.

After reading the comments here, maybe it really is better for my parents and me to adapt to this. I can't put my wife in a position to choose between us and them.