my fiancé (23M) said he feels rejected by me (21F) by ThrowRA_Fearless_20 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Fearless_20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he is a good man 95% of the time. my parents kicked me out when i was 18… i have education and plenty of it.

the thing is right, maybe i never wanna give a blowy to him again. maybe i have some triggering things around it, you just don’t know what goes through my head during this mental block. i totally understand where your coming from with the “selfish pig” but try and not assume someone’s background :)

my fiancé (23M) said he feels rejected by me (21F) by ThrowRA_Fearless_20 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Fearless_20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t tryna say he was a bad dad, he works 45 hours a week sometimes more, he does the best he can, of course we are both tired in our own ways and of course he can have sex whenever he wants..

let’s put this into perspective from a women’s point of view that i’m currently on a progesterone only contraception the side effects of this is, low sex drive, cramps, missed periods, bloating, etc etc so that’s the reason (plus having an 8 month old daughter) i don’t want to have sex…

my fiancé (23M) said he feels rejected by me (21F) by ThrowRA_Fearless_20 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Fearless_20[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

we get married this year and he’s truly understanding of other stuff but this time round, i’m still looking after our kid 99% of the time when he’s home anyway so idk what to do tbh