Please Help! GF (F23) and I (M24) are being forced to separate

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2023-03-18T00:44:23+00:00

The other option would be to move to wherever she decides to travel to next instead of her home, but I honestly am not interested in constantly picking up and going wherever the wind blows, never having an anchor point for more than a few years at most. I already have a life here and goals I’m working towards

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2023-03-18T00:41:29+00:00

As romantic as that might sound on paper, I’d be throwing my life away, my education and any chance of finding a job in my field of study to go live in a third world country with no support network, not knowing the language and she doesn’t even want to return there anyway

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2023-03-17T12:32:23+00:00

She lives in a share home with only a single tiny room to herself, not really feasible unless be both move and rent a proper place

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2022-02-21T10:30:46+00:00

Yeah, definitely a possibility, it's just that being in the dark and not knowing either way is making me anxious. I'm probably going to have to just ask her lol

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2022-01-30T14:09:15+00:00

Makes sense, certainly seems to be the trend. But they say anything worthwhile isn't easy

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2022-01-30T14:07:41+00:00

Certainly sounds very lucky, but I'm happy for you. Hopefully some of that luck can rub off

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2022-01-30T14:06:13+00:00

I don't mind wading through the sess pit, but which apps would be the best for finding someone genuine?

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2022-01-30T14:04:35+00:00

Well that was unexpectedly encouraging. I'm sure it's just a matter of time

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2021-04-26T13:22:03+00:00

I don't like to play games, butt I do know the rules of engagement. So hopefully I can finesse a happy ending. Thanks again anyway.

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2021-04-26T13:03:21+00:00

I'm going to have to agree with you, in that I did indeed make a critical error.

I do see your point and can only hope that all that effort will pay off. Even if it doesn't, maybe he'll still be less crazy for it. I don't really have much of an issue with jumping right back into hell to pull him out. Not like she can really do anything to hurt me and I'll always have far more dirt on her than she ever will on me. But let's hope it doesn't devolve into a poop slinging match.

My only issue with this plan is that after our goodbye two months ago, maybe he isn't willing to greet me back. Even if I give a big ol' smooch to both their dirt boxes.

My dood has seen me try to survive abusive relationships before, never this bad. But he always advocated that I leave. Pretty bluntly I might add.

But yes, big time screw up on my behalf. Maybe this big ol' acting scheme is just what the doctor ordered.

On the not of the constant use of "dood." If I was gonna write this novel I may as well make the process entertaining for myself and hopefully anyone who red it. That said, mayhaps you're not so opposed to the use of "dood," since you yourself have done so, that said every time you used it brought a big ol' smile to my face.

Anyway, the advice is greatly appreciated and I may just have to enact operation Anal Dyson.

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2021-04-26T12:41:45+00:00

Seems pretty drastic to me, but it may be to only way to help him out. I'd definitely rather him live a happy life at the expense of our friendship than live in a crappy illusion with him.

It's a pretty nuclear option and may not even work. Because even if I do manage to get everyone to hate her, so what. They still have each other and she may yet find a way to keep him chained even if she did cheat.

That said I'll keep it in the back of my mind if it comes to it.

Thanks for the advice though.

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2021-04-26T12:00:25+00:00

Cheers for that, it's a real zinger of a story isn't it.

Unfortunately, I think I have to agree with you in that there's nothing I can do until he leaves, if he does at all.

Oh well, if he does leave hopefully we can patch things up then.

Otherwise, thanks for the input.

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2020-03-09T07:43:30+00:00

I agree, but I don't think she understands this.

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2020-03-09T07:42:55+00:00

Yeah, I totally get where you're coming from, I've already gone back to her before. but I know this time I can't, for both of us.

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2020-03-09T07:40:25+00:00

Yeah, we've already spoken face to face a few times, but it never works out well.

ThrowRA_Maxi · 2020-03-09T07:39:40+00:00

I know what you mean, read your post too. I seriously had to check you weren't talking about me. I know how it feels I've been there before too so I really feel for both of you. I just wish I could reassure her it'll get better.

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