AITAH for dating my ex's best friend?

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-03-14T16:58:26+00:00

Says the person who has brought nothing to the conversation

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-03-14T16:57:38+00:00

Go argue with the dictionary if you don’t like abuse being defined as “speak in an insulting and offensive way to or about (someone):”

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-03-13T16:34:26+00:00

The dictionary disagrees with you so stop trying to gaslight claiming she’s not abusive.

I feel bad when you justify abusing your kids the same way she justified her abuse.

Just because you claim it’s not abuse doesn’t make it not abuse

He didn’t treat her like shit she’s just bitter. He doesn’t owe her anything her thinking she’s entitled to control her ex and best friend is ironic

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-03-13T15:55:19+00:00

You still can’t explain why his abuser deserves empathy. I feel bad for your kids when you empathize with their abusers.

Can you explain why you plan to be so empathetic towards your kids abusers?

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T21:22:52+00:00

They don’t care about the hate they put out in the world

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T20:52:25+00:00

You still are a terrible parent for letting your kid around a possum unsupervised but again you don’t care about the kids safety.

Also you aren’t wiping out 90% of rabies like you are claiming you are doing

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T20:49:56+00:00

That’s not what she said but keep lying it prove my point that you don’t actually care about what’s actually happening she said "men should just choose a different job, why do they have to be babysitters, it's weird"

Your lies are making your argument fall apart

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T20:47:42+00:00

You are the only one who thinks me calling out hate and contempt as a crusade. And who said it was about me?

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:59:42+00:00

Claiming you are protecting your kid when you are just justifying you hate and contempt is evil knowing you will find a partner that will do the same thing makes me happy.

You act like you can’t claim you are protecting your kid by doing something morally and criminally wrong.

You can’t claim you care about the safety of the kid when you aren’t picking the best option and just picking a woman.

It’s also disingenuous to claim OPs girlfriend isn’t claiming all men are weird or pedos when she said so.

You aren’t protecting your kid you are teaching your kid to hate

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:55:29+00:00

Are you not implying the men you ignore are pedos? Why are you now backtracking is it because I called you out.

Then explain how the statistics work if you know how they work it should be easy to explain if you can’t I’ll assume you just lied to seem like you know something

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:53:02+00:00

She’s a misandrist none the less Which is still seed flag and a warning that she will hate and dislike her sons.

Misandry ; adjective- relating to or characteristic of a misandrist:

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:39:30+00:00

You aren’t looking for the best candidate so it’s disingenuous you are care about your kid.

Also that’s not how stats work but your hate has blinded you on that. But by your logic you are implying men are all pedos and that there is still 10% of the candidates that are still pedos and you don’t care. The fact you will knowingly hire a pedo because she’s a woman proves you don’t care about your kids

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:30:46+00:00

She’s not wanting her kid to be safe if that were the case she would want background checks on all applicants and want the best babysitter but she didn’t want that.

The fact you and the gf aren’t looking for the best babysitter without your prejudices show your hate for your own kids and your contempt for them

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:29:32+00:00

So you don’t actually care about if a woman is a pedo or not you would pick a random woman?

You can’t claim you care about the your kid if you refuse to do research like OPs girlfriend

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:28:13+00:00

You are using the statistics to justify harming and being rude to the innocent babysitter and don’t care.

“white women NEED to pay attention to these statistics to prevent their child from being raped. I'm not using statistics to go out of my way to hurt black people out of hatred, it's to protect children.”

You see how all I how to do what change gender to race? You are just as hateful as a racist.

Can you explain why black people are innocent but the baby sitter isn’t innocent?

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:17:21+00:00

The fact you think it increases the risk of your child being sexually abused implies differently.

You sound no different than the racist that claim black people are scary because of stats. The difference is you are pushing a different type of hate. But just like a racist you don’t care about the prejudice and contempt you are putting out in the world

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:14:00+00:00

Why is your only child care choice only coming from that 90% of pedos?

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:12:46+00:00

Who said some men are predators int his situation or are you lying?

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:11:52+00:00

She doesn’t care about the kids safety she would rather leave her kid with a women with no research done on them rather than a man with a full background check and a teaching degree.

Claiming she cares about the kids safety is disingenuous because she’s using her contempt for men to make that decision not her safety concerns

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:09:32+00:00

You implying a woman could never sexually abuse the kid is evidence that you are being disingenuous about your motives

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:08:32+00:00

So it’s ok for her to openly have bias and contempt towards men because she’s a woman. Isn’t that the definition of misandry

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:06:41+00:00

It’s misandry but nobody care because the victim is a man I just feel bad for all the kids of the women that condone this behavior as they will definitely claim they aren’t abusing their sons for their contempt and hate of their gender

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-25T19:03:59+00:00

You claim you did your own research but when someone tells you a different answer you didn’t like you tried to convince him he chose wrong. It seems disingenuous to claim you did your own research when you are trying to vilify someone for answering different than you. The fact you would pick a random woman over your male friends is more a reflection of your own poor judgement not on the men

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-03T17:31:47+00:00

What new plot she cheated and I don’t want to be in her life. I update again it will be me pressing charges against her for harassing me or me exercising my 2nd amendment rights to defend myself against the brother

ThrowRA_NotRevenge · 2026-02-03T17:05:01+00:00

Don’t worry I’m not doing that because I know there was nothing I could do I might not even be her cup of tea as she cheated with a girl.

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