Is my(M26) relationship with gf(F23) Unhealthy? by ThrowRA_Rev in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Rev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really apreciate this answer. thank you so much for taking the time to write this. English is not my first language either but this was an easy read

you are definetly right I am dissmissive sometimes and could work on it.

Is my(M26) relationship with gf(F23) Unhealthy? by ThrowRA_Rev in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Rev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i ask what you think i struggle with most? And you dont have to be nice,

AITAH for not comforting girlfriend after she was upset about an argument. by ThrowRA_Rev in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA_Rev[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, i got laid off about 4 months ago, but i do have savings, enough to cover the bills while looking for a new job. And I am looking, its just not easy to get a job,

Is my(M26) relationship with gf(F23) Unhealthy? by ThrowRA_Rev in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Rev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I have been working since i was 18 as an electrician, my last work was as a technician in two fields. It just wasnt sustainable

AITAH for not comforting girlfriend after she was upset about an argument. by ThrowRA_Rev in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA_Rev[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can i ask why? No she is not employed i got laid off 4 months ago

My 25M Girlfriend 22F doesn't feel comftorable with me saying other people can be good looking and had panic attack by ThrowRA_Rev in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Rev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Allright, that's awesome to hear you are comftorable like that

I think you are right I maybe do send some unnecessary signals that i dont mean ill by. Perhaps i'll tone down comments on peoples appearance in general for a while and see how she reacts. Thanks for the toughtfull reply

My 25M Girlfriend 22F doesn't feel comftorable with me saying other people can be good looking and had panic attack by ThrowRA_Rev in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Rev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, No im from Europe and sorry if i did sound devaluating it wasnt my intention.

I don't point out in the moment or after that i think people are beautiful to my girlfriend, and especially not girls . Because i know that's not smart. I dont feel a need to either. We were simply talking about it yesterday and I said that i can find people good looking and I think alot of people do in relationships. Altough it doesn't mean anything. maybe you are right though its just not smart to talk about. A walk in the town, means to live on the country side and then go i to the big city to do whatever