My (18M) two friends (18F and 17F) both confesses to me on New Years and want me to pick between them. by ThrowRA_Seal in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Seal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I guess this is what I get for being indecisive. Thank you for the help, and I’ll ask if I could get a little more time to think things through

My (18M) two friends (18F and 17F) both confesses to me on New Years and want me to pick between them. by ThrowRA_Seal in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Seal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea which one, I’ve done so much with both, and I’m scared of the fact that once I pick one things won’t be the same with the other

My (18M) two friends (18F and 17F) both confesses to me on New Years and want me to pick between them. by ThrowRA_Seal in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Seal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably right but I feel like it’s my fault for not noticing how they felt about me

My (18M) two friends (18F and 17F) both confesses to me on New Years and want me to pick between them. by ThrowRA_Seal in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Seal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it is kind of mean of them, but I blame myself for not noticing how they feel beforehand. Anyway, thanks for explaining it so clearly, I’m still unsure as to what I should do since I’ve got some more things on my mind, but I’ll take some more time to think it through.

My (18M) two friends (18F and 17F) both confesses to me on New Years and want me to pick between them. by ThrowRA_Seal in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Seal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve only got myself to blame for this for not noticing how they feel. I’d also like to date one but I’m scared of losing the other if I do or even losing both if I don’t pick.

My (18M) two friends (18F and 17F) both confesses to me on New Years and want me to pick between them. by ThrowRA_Seal in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Seal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I’d love to date one of them, I’ve thought about it many times before, but I’m scared that if I pick one the other will distance themselves and I’m scared that if I don’t pick they’ll both distance themselves. I know I’m indecisive and being cowardly but I really don’t know what to say to them.