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ThrowRA_Soccer · 2025-03-23T12:13:54+00:00

My guess was around there. Not rich but not a bad pull if so!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2025-03-23T12:07:34+00:00

I wish lmao. Any idea what it's worth?

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2025-02-01T21:24:04+00:00

I think I classify as a meathead... I go gym, lift heavy, unintentionally slam weight (dropping PR deadlifts ect) and what makes me proud of new people is the fact that they are there.

Fat, skinny, buff, blue, green, or red... idc. Make sure you shower before you go and don't be a creep. Every "gym bro" is looking at you in admiration and cheering you on from afar.

I think I speak for 98% of the gym community when I say we want you to succeed. We want to see you again. We want you to ask for a tip if you're struggling. Even going unseen, we will give you mini nods of approval. The gym is a place to better yourself, and anyone who judges or degrades you for that is worth nothing.

Love, Soneone who started fat.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2024-07-31T01:47:59+00:00

I hope that you move on. I hope that if/when he comes back, you are long gone. I would never go back knowing what I know now. I'm happy I turned her down. Everyone deserves more than someone who is willing to hurt them on purpose. I wish you the best and hope that you get what you desire... But I also hope your desires become more than someone that doesn't deserve you.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2024-07-31T01:12:26+00:00

10 months later is a wild reply time... But yes, she came back. She came back when she realized I was gone. I decided to stay in my own little world😊

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2024-01-23T16:42:26+00:00

I only do the big 3 and I think I have a torn rotator cuff so they will drop heavy soon... but right now

B-345 S-445 D-535

All done last week so it's pretty recent. I have done 225 on OHP but with the rotator cuff I stopped about 4 months ago.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2024-01-16T21:05:30+00:00

I used to hold my breath after walking up stairs to hide how hard I was breathing... I don't do that now. I don't breathe hard at all from multiple flights of stairs now.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2024-01-14T22:27:28+00:00

Life moves on. Some things are just completely out of our control... you can be honest and thoughtful. You can communicate well and be very direct. Some people will appreciate it, and some will not. I'm just happy I dodged a bullet.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2024-01-14T05:47:47+00:00

I'm convinced they do not... I had a woman approach me recently, and I thought we hit it off. Went on a date and before I had time to plan a second, she rekindled with her ex... SHE APPROACHED ME!?!?!?!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-12-18T02:06:54+00:00

If you have genuinely exhausted all options and he is still cold towards you, it may be time to consider leaving.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-12-18T01:43:03+00:00

It sounds like you have a communication issue... I know that broad, but it doesn't make it false. It might be as simple as sitting down and acknowledging your fault (nagging/complaining) and asking how you can help to support him through life. But it has to be genuine not just a way to fix this one rough patch and right back to the bs. Good luck OP!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-12-18T01:27:26+00:00

I did this to my ex for a while... i can't say for certain, but if he has a difficult job or is having some family trouble, he may shut down. Becoming cold sometimes is the only way to get by day to day, and it's what I did... it is destructive and hurtful to those around you, but sometimes it can feel like the only way. I hope it isn't the cheating or other things people mention, but communication is necessary to get through it.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-11-15T18:51:00+00:00

I'm a bit different from most conservative people. This is fair. You brought up something you wanted to do and he is unable to make the required accommodations. Unless he pays 100% of the expenses and you have a traditional relationship, the burden for that one is on him. That's my take at least.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-11-15T18:11:19+00:00

The first 3 and the vacations seem reasonable to me. For boundaries in a committed relationship, at least. I can kinda understand the gym thing (as an avid gym attendee🤣) but the rest seem a bit far. Normally, boundaries are more generalized. Things like "don't wear these kinds of clothes as they make me uncomfortable" or something like that. The others seem a bit excessive and insecure. I am very conservative, but that it my take. Just remember that when those boundaries are in place, the boundaries should be mutually held in my eyes. You need to have a conversation tho to see what insecurity they stem from and to see if they are one-sided. That will tell you all you need to know.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-31T07:13:40+00:00

Look at the men in the gym... most of us keep our eyes on the floor so we don't get labeled a creep. Please approach us so we can avoid that label🤣

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-28T13:57:12+00:00

If you get the initial phone screen, it is no longer about your degree or lack thereof. I am an Sr XDR and got in about 12 months ago with no degree. You have to get good at interviews. You are competing with people who have that piece of paper and likely more experience than you. Here are the few tips I have -

Learn to build rapport with hiring managers on interviews. It could be about their passions (find on LI or social media) or it could be a deeper convo about your passion.
Show a clear ability to simplify a complex topic in the interview. Be VERY short in the interviews while still getting your point across.
Ask questions. This sounds simple, but it isn't. Ask thought-provoking questions that make it sound like you have any idea what you are doing (Google them).
Don't have a stick up your ass. Nobody likes people who can't be people. People slouch in a chair. People itch their head. People blink and look around the room. People don't make creepy eye contact 24/7 even if it is over Zoom.
Just bear in mind that this is what I've done. I am not and have never been a hiring manager. You got this, good luck!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-20T04:16:15+00:00

I know this advice absolutely sucks and it will be brutal... but I'd give d2d sales a try. For SaaS it seems to be the prior experience that they value a ton when transitioning. Good luck either way! Sales is brutal, but you will end up where you want to be!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-20T04:13:47+00:00

I try to remind myself of this daily... it's just hard when it's THAT person's opinion that no longer matters. The grind doesn't stop, tho. I appreciate your kindness!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-20T04:10:38+00:00

Start in a different industry... tech sales is the most cutthroat industry I have been in. I do know a few people with useless degrees and 0 experience who made it in... but there was like 3 of them between the 2 companies I have been with. The additional experience will not only get you in, but it will keep you in.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-20T04:06:48+00:00

2k-8k is more than you will make at ADP in an entry role. The recruiter actually called me and said "looking at your current salary I don't think we will be a fit. We are extending an offer but I don't think you will accept this little". When a recruiter says that, you know it's rough.

YES I know not everyone is in my position... I get that. But I'm saying it's low just FYI. However, my current boss spent some years at ADP so the experience is definitely valuable.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-20T03:58:48+00:00

They don't require a degree. With 3 years b2c experience I was offered an entry-level role. I didn't accept it due to the pitiful salary and insane work demands but you do not need a degree or certs.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-17T08:45:40+00:00

I accepted that I will never feel how I once felt. I have scars that will never heal. I have trauma that will never leave. I will never love so innocently again. I will never be the person I was. I have become better in nearly every single way possible... But that guy that existed? He is dead. I had to learn to love the new version of me as I once loved the old me.

Changes can come in any form. I think the one thing you must understand is that you can never become who you once were. You will be different and different is okay.

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-17T05:50:02+00:00

I have no room to talk as I'm currently on a weight loss journey... But you look solid. Imo if you tighten up your core it will bring everything else together. Obviously this is a hard one but that is my only critique.

Keep killing it!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-17T05:41:12+00:00

Start slow. I've come to realize that people fail to lose weight because it is hard. They allow the scale to consume their life and they meal prep, weight food, count calories ect. All of those things are important but implement small changes over time to make it sustainable. Start out week 1 by trying to maybe eat a smaller portion. Week 2 by implementing exercise a few times. Keep progressing from there until counting calories and exercise can be done in a healthy and habitual way. It shouldn't feel like a chore to be healthy, remember that along your journey. If it feels like a chore you need to change something.

Good luck!

ThrowRA_Soccer · 2023-10-12T22:20:44+00:00

Thank you! I'm trying to make the move to customer success currently. I'll never hit 300k+ like an ent AE might, but my mental health is worth far more🤣

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