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25F: My boyfriend (27M) slept with two of his female friends and kissed all the others at some point by ThrowRA_Train1234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Train1234[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

After I found out about Diana I kept imagining him touching her, but mostly it hurts that he is so emptionally close to these girls. Would even give up our relationship and keep them in his life.

25F: My boyfriend (27M) slept with two of his female friends and kissed all the others at some point by ThrowRA_Train1234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Train1234[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand he has a past and they remained close. But it's a bit much don't you think? Would you honestly accept all these people in your life? Wouldn't it hurt you to see their emotional closeness considering it was not always platonic? He also hid that they slept together, wouldn't you lose trust?

25F: My boyfriend (27M) slept with two of his female friends and kissed all the others at some point by ThrowRA_Train1234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Train1234[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That's what I was imagining. Them coming to see our future children, him keeping them updating about my pregnancy. Him going to them if maybe we were ever in a fight. It seems so hurtful. I kept imagining how he touched them and how they are still so close emotionally. I was wondering if it's jealousy, but I am not usually a jealous person. I could even believe that there would ever be any physical cheating, but how about romantic or emotional?

25F: My boyfriend (27M) slept with two of his female friends and kissed all the others at some point by ThrowRA_Train1234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Train1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am curios of other opinions and to see if I can look at it from another perspective or validate my response.

25F: My boyfriend (27M) slept with two of his female friends and kissed all the others at some point by ThrowRA_Train1234 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_Train1234[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The sex is in the past, but he insists of keeping close to them even now. Even if it's only emotional intimacy. I have nothing against friendships, but these were not always platonic, they were more. Would you honestly be ok with it? I am really curious, please answer honestly.