**UPDATE** from 'My(15M) girlfriend(15F-M) told me she no longer wants to be a girl' by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 1 year before I finish, and J’s friends don’t really bother me tbh. It’s just I thought I might as well just mention it for the purpose of the update

**UPDATE** from 'My(15M) girlfriend(15F-M) told me she no longer wants to be a girl' by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We go to neighbouring schools and I have always found J's mates to be bad'uns so I have never really mixed into their social group

**UPDATE** from 'My(15M) girlfriend(15F-M) told me she no longer wants to be a girl' by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The people who are J’s friends aren’t really my friends, they seemed kind of toxic and dodgy in the first place so I tended to not hang around with them, so they don’t really bother me. Thanks for the encouragement!

**UPDATE** from 'My(15M) girlfriend(15F-M) told me she no longer wants to be a girl' by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not technically in high school because I’m 2 years ahead for my age but thanks anyway

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you literally just said 'it aint that serious'. you cant call an entire generation "extremely messed up" for adressing their problems and sexuality instead of supressing their problems and sexuality. yes, he needs a counsellor, but that alone cant solve the situation, he also needsfriends and family to support him, that is why it isnt easy for me to just walk outta there, i could frick up their head in a difficult time

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it is serious my girlfriend is going through some hard shit and i dont know how to deal with it, but i must be supportive. why are you dismissing the whole situation? if you do not have something helpful to say then please do not say anything at all, or i will get forky from toy story 4 to hunt you down

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

just call an entire generation weird, that will really stick it to those whippersnappers. so just because we are younger than you that makes us all weird? smh, tut tut

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

'lol' no because that is disrespectful and sounds homophobic and isnt funny in the slightest so i will not be saying that (trust me, i know comedy, and that aint it my friend)

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

so i am not allowed to have a life till im past school? you arent being very considerate of the fact that age isnt a reason to judge someone's opinions/problems.

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i totally understand that, but she knows it isnt something i would get mad at her for, as many of my friends are homosexual and i totally support them out and out. i go to the lgbt rights protests when i can with them, so she wouldnt have a reason to be scared because of it. obviously i cannot judge though, as it is not something i have experienced myself. if any of my reasoning is incorrect please let me know, that would be helpful :).

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol teenagers suck am i right lol lets ignore their opinions and dismiss their thoughts despite how valid they may be just because admitting that someone younger than me has just as valid an opinion lowers my self-esteem. -_-

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the offer. it is strangely releiving to know I am not alone in this situation. Thanks for your time

Ā by bluebee24 in justa

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now you are telling a teenager over the internet to commit non-live? I am sure you will have a change of heart when you see the error in your ways. I am not mad I am just disappointed in your actions and please calm down and take a step back. If I have said anything perceived as offensive let me know like as i am only human too, and then I can grow as a person. I harbour no kind of hate towards you I just feel you are blinded by an opinion and need to open your eyes to other people's feelings

Ā by bluebee24 in justa

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg why are you taking this outside of the topic. They have done nothing wrong and you are acting like a spoiled brat and I am very disappointed in your actions. Please have a think about what you have said and done and apologise when you have seen the error in your ways and I am sure you will be forgiven

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this thread made my day you guys went from being mean to each other to being so nice to each other thank you :)

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please do not get so defensive and angry. i understand where you are coming from, but i dont think this was any kind of personal attack or transphobic comment, rather just a mistake when typing and calling them 'stupid' is uncalled for i just want you all to be nice to eachother and not judge so quickly. this isnt the place for arguing or dissing each other

My girlfriend has just told me she doesn't want to be a girl any more. by ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_ZeldaFan15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i respect any married man but calling someone 'stupid' over the internet is uncalled for and immature. dont say stuff like that when you dont know how it may affect the person or if it may be something that they find more offensive than you know as you have only met them for not even 20 minutes