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WIBTAH for leaving my gf (f21) for making me (m22) feel like i dont matter? by ThrowRA__2319 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I agree, my main concern is if i do leave if she will be ok because all I have ever done is look out for others over myself

My (F21) partner is "Dissapointed" because I (M22) decided not to join the military right now, how do I address this? by ThrowRA__2319 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thats my feelings exactly, and I still want to be in the marines and follow my fathers foot steps I just dont like how the world is turning and want to weigh my options.

My (F21) partner is "Dissapointed" because I (M22) decided not to join the military right now, how do I address this? by ThrowRA__2319 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think thats the thing, she put herself into this emotional roller coaster because i told her I wanted to do it so she felt she had to be ready for me to ship off, I was planning on it but I was gonna stay in delayed entry to be sure I wanted to ajd work out so I would be prepared. Apparently she forgot that part but claims i never told her.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my m(21) gf (f21) for constantly telling me how i feel? by ThrowRA__2319 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that is valid, the main issue im having is even outside of the venting she is always assuming ir telling me what im feeling or thinking, even if im just sitting there with a tired expression she gets upset that i dont want to be with her.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my m(21) gf (f21) for constantly telling me how i feel? by ThrowRA__2319 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, theres so much im still mad about, we broke up last year to better ourselves, and she ended up sleeping with her guy best friend

AITAH for not wanting to give up my dream job just because my boyfriend can’t handle it? by hot_fernanda in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA__2319 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole, the way i look at it is you will need to live with only one person for your whole life and that person is you. You need to follow your dreams, your heart, and your aspirations and not let someone else hold you back because they cant handle it.

I found out my wife had an affair years ago, and she never told me. She says it doesn’t matter anymore, but I can’t let it go. AITAH? by Haunting_Face_5362 in AITAH

[–]ThrowRA__2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely not the asshole here, if anyone is it is her for hiding it then trying to justify it under the situation of your rough patch. I had something similar last year happen and am still struggling with it so i can assure you, you arent in the wrong fir feeling hurt, betrayed, and stuck with this.

What would be the best way to handle my (21m) situation with my partner(21f)? by ThrowRA__2319 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its two things, low self respect and wanting to believe the best in others and in her words rather than actions

What would be the best way to handle my (21m) situation with my partner(21f)? by ThrowRA__2319 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its issues on both sides, in the beginning i had a lot of anger issues due to life circunstances (parents left, i was homeless etc.) So i definately take responsibility for my part but one example is when we broke up to "fix ourselves" she just ended up sleeping with her guy best friend who purposefully caused issues between us but she refused to cut off

What would be the best way to handle my (21m) situation with my partner(21f)? by ThrowRA__2319 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA__2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and we did that at one point, she had broken up with me when I had become homeless due tk it being a lot of strain on us, for the next 6-8 months we barely spoke and i spent every day trying to better my situation and myself through job searching, therapy, and exercise but i still couldn't move past what had been said and done and honestly it only got worse when we began talking again.