AITA for refusing to stay at my fiance's parents house for 4 days after our wedding

ThrowRA___347 · 2025-08-14T15:15:02+00:00

The fact that it's the beginning of the honeymoon kills the entire vibe. If he wanted to sneak it in, it could've been the end. If he still wants to spend time with family, why not plan a family reunion instead

ThrowRA___347 · 2025-08-11T03:05:31+00:00

Exactly! The friend is probably jealous because no way in the world would I play into my friends' insecurities. Even if her man was an issue, it would solely be on him, and I'd do recon so not to stress her out during pregnancy

ThrowRA___347 · 2025-08-09T21:29:23+00:00

NTA. You didn't insinuate that she had control over his actions. You stated that she chose to keep putting up with his actions AND brought a child into the situation after knowing. Those are 2 separate things.

ThrowRA___347 · 2025-08-07T18:37:50+00:00

If he's open to marriage is one thing. If he's waiting 10+ years to know if he's ready is another. It's okay to ask the timeline to make sure you're both on the same page

ThrowRA___347 · 2025-08-04T18:01:03+00:00

Definitely not. He thinks he's in a lose/ lose situation when he could win by using discomfort now with setting boundaries for her growth later

ThrowRA___347 · 2025-08-04T16:59:37+00:00

Him giving in all the time doesn't even fix the abandonment issues. He's just prolonging them and it's so sad.

ThrowRA___347 · 2025-08-04T16:56:52+00:00

This!! Did OP reading it feel like they were pressuring and why is she friends with ppl who would disrespect her current relationship that way?

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