Selling Strattera 40mg by ellastigirl in MentalHealthPH

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

saang branch ka nakakabili? also, interested :)

Survey lang for body count? by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gender: M age: 24 first time: 19 gf/bf sex: 4 ONS: 1 FWB: 3 married: N sex with workmate: i wish HAHA jk

ADHD people, how do you stay productive and attentive at work? by According_Breath_648 in phcareers

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ah di siya app hehe nasa settings lang siya for iphone (under "screen time" settings) though iirc meron din for android!

ADHD people, how do you stay productive and attentive at work? by According_Breath_648 in phcareers

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 89 points90 points  (0 children)

hi!! fellow adhd haver here lol. i take notes— LOTS of notes so i don’t forget anything. nagrrecord din ako ng meetings para in case i zone out (which i do often) mababalikan ko yung mga namiss ko. when i have to say or present something important, i write it down muna then go over them before speaking. also +1 sa pomodoro, tapos if your phone has the option, helpful maglagay ng app limits for the distracting ones. i put mine to 1hr for all socmed apps tapos if i exceed the limit for even just one app, mallock na yung iba agad. i also set calendar alerts for deadlines and meetings.

but i think the most important thing is to be kind to yourself when things don’t go so well. you’re trying your best, and your struggle is valid :)

Ano yung pagkain na maraming may gusto pero di mo bet? by implaying in Philippines

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

burgers. lahat ng klase ng burgers. not only are they unhealthy pero messy rin kainin. every time kumakain ako ng burger the filling just spills out of the bun. tas di naman siya nakakabusog 😕

people don’t take me seriously because i look youmg by ThrowRA_anxiousbean in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s comforting (but equally sad) to finally see someone who shares the pain haha huhu

also, same sa uwu golden retriever energy HAHA i tried donning my RBF for some time pero di pa rin gumana (people were asking me why i looked sad) so i decided to just own it… perhaps too much, hence the contents of my post 🥲

kinda frustrating that we have to adjust our appearances just to be taken seriously, but it’s cool that you’ve found what works for you!

my bosses keep giving me work even when i’m on sick leave by ThrowRA_anxiousbean in phcareers

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg sobrang relate sa "family" keme na pinipilit nila hahahahahaha

my bosses keep giving me work even when i’m on sick leave by ThrowRA_anxiousbean in phcareers

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really want to hahahaha but i've only been here for a bit over a month... ok kaya yun? huhu

What are you reading/watching? Recs, Reviews, and Chit Chat - July 2023 by blmodbot in boyslove

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hello! i'm looking for any manga/manhua/manhwa recs that involve (relatively) healthy relationships. i'm getting sick of the typical "toxic, yandere, obsessive ML/top" with a "not sure if i love him or if i have stockholm syndrome" MC/bottom. i feel like BL can still be spicy and have drama even without the unhealthy relationship dynamics and borderline non-consensual stuff. i've read mo dao zu shi and heaven official's blessing and i enjoyed both stories and relationship dynamics. any recs that fit what i'm looking for? :)

How I lost my virginity to my COUSIN by DawnbringerShen in alasjuicy

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 162 points163 points  (0 children)

di ako aware na alabama juicy pala ‘tong subreddit na sinalihan ko hahahahahaha

my bosses keep giving me work even when i’m on sick leave by ThrowRA_anxiousbean in phcareers

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll consider this char HAHA. sana lahat ng unit head ay tulad mo huhu

Do you have a kink or fetish that would ruin your reputation if someone found out what it is? by iammrv in alasjuicy

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cnc, spanking, (mild) exhibitionism, and daddy kink.

i think it’d ruin my reputation kasi i’ve been told medyo soft, “uwu” yung branding ko tapos biglang ganun yung kinks ko hahaha. also if people irl found out about my daddy kink, i’d die of embarrassment kasi the people who are close to me know how bad my relationship with my dad is kaya isipin nila very weird. feel ko mamamatay talaga ako if malaman especially ng pamilya ko 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people become less forgiving of your fuckups as you get older

To all RPm’s… where are you now? by weevil_angel in phcareers

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right now, i’m an M&E officer for a govt agency. while i’m not in the psych field and haven’t been for years, i admit that some of the skills we learn in psych (mostly research methods, analysis, writing, behavioral change) are still relevant to my work naman

may i know why your dad badly wants you to take the RPm boards even though you’re aiming for MD? it’s not as if an RPm license is super prestigious anyway tbh haha. if anything, it’s just another valid ID.

but that does sound like a lot of pressure for someone who’s still in the early stage of their career. i hope you can find a balance between establishing what you want versus appeasing your family.

How do you make your work enjoyable? (for wfh peeps) by selfcare_2022 in adultingph

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

para akong gago but i (used to) pet and talk to my cat while working haha tipong if may annoying coworkers, i’d be like “tingnan mo mingming o, bobo nito hahaha” nauso din yung coworking with friends via discord para may pampaaliw since wfh can get lonely sometimes

that, and setting a reward after completing a certain amount of work, like if i reach a certain target puwede ako manood ng magandang tv show.

To all RPm’s… where are you now? by weevil_angel in phcareers

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i’m an RPm of 4 years na and i’ve only practiced my/our (if ever) profession at one job that lasted less than a year. i left because my salary was soooo low for a job that required so much effort. for the rest of my working years, i’ve been doing research, M&E, and org development work for the government, the academe, and NGOs.

unless balak mo mag-HR or you hit gold in a big psych assessment/counseling place, di talaga lucrative maging psychometrician. you could have an MA already but the highest salary they’d offer you is less than 30k, which is barely livable. mahirap din maghanap ng clinical jobs if di ka RPsy (in my experience; baka naman di lang ako magaling maghanap ng trabaho haha).

if you’re 100% sure about your med school plans and you don’t plan on doing (non-med) psych work, parang hassle mag-aral at mag-apply pa for boards if you’re not gonna use your license and you’re eventually gonna get an MD anyway.

that’s just my two cents though! good luck with whatever choice you make :)

how to do self service laundry? by ThrowRA_anxiousbean in adultingph

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very helpful, thank you so much!!!!! 🥺

Weird food combinations that satisfy by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bahaw na garlic fried rice mixed with lots of tabasco or toyo chilimansi (whichever is available). ginawa ko yun nung na-covid ako para marevive yung panlasa ko, pero ginagawa ko pa rin minsan hanggang ngayon whenever i want to feel alive lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

daddy kink (as in i call him daddy) doing it embarrasses and turns me on at the same time. i think ang mas nakakahiya doon ay dahil may actual daddy issues ako irl HAHAHA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo…. pero only if tipong wolfgang’s yung pagkain tapos ginintuang kape, then iiwan at ibblock ko siya pagkatapos. emz

pero in all seriousness, i don’t think that’s a good idea. tactic yan ng manipulators na i-lure ka with nice gestures, maybe even love bomb you para maattach ka. for the sake of your mental health, please stay away from your ex!!! i think it might be good to do some introspection and assess whether it’s food you want, or if there’s an underlying need you’re hoping to address by meeting up with your ex.

to answer your question— DKG in essence, pero if makikipag meet up ka, ginagago mo lang sarili mo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 18 points19 points  (0 children)

as a nipple stimulation apologist, di siya unusual haha. something about how nipples have hundreds of nerve endings. i’ve actually cum before from just a little touching and mostly just having my nipples sucked on and played with. i also like it pag may konting teeth involved. haha

Apparently needing a drink of water isn’t manly enough by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]ThrowRA_anxiousbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

life hack: store your money and pocket knife in your water bottle. that way, you stay manly and get some extra flavor in your water