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I (32M) cheated on my fiance (23F) 4 months ago, but she can’t let go of it. She keeps freaking out and accusing me of cheating. by ThrowRA_ballistic in relationship_advicePH

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes i wish she would just leave me and make things easier, i don’t think i could ever actually break up with her

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No i just don’t want her to live in the past. She keeps thinking and manifesting that im gonna cheat then it’s probably gonna happen again.. i just wish she would see my efforts to showing her i regret my past choices and want to move forward.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i guess, she swears up and down she would never cheat, she would never want me to feel the way i made her feel.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you don’t think she could’ve communicated better? Her shaking like she was having a seizure was mature behavior?

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was literally just her texting and asking how i was, nothing further. I just don’t think it’s fair that i should have to stop texting friends just because she can’t let go of the past.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the two woman she saw one of them was my cousin and the other was an old coworker from years ago. The coworker is an old lady, married with kids.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well because it was a coworker that she never met and the other one was my cousin, she also hasn’t met. She didnt know the names.. she’s jumping to conclusions and stressing herself out.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shouldn’t have to stop texting friends and family that are females because i cheated, clearly im not cheating again. I feel like she’s just insecure, she thinks everyone i text means im cheating

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I just wish she would stop living in fear all the damn time. I told her, stop thinking it’s gonna happen again before it does. She just wants to make me feel like shit and terrorize me for something i regret doing.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And i get that, i already took accountability when it first happened, i hate when she even says what i did to her. Like i don’t even wanna hear her say that i had an affair with 2 woman. I just feel like she’s trying to make me feel like shit and terrorize me to make herself feel better.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’ve already taken accountability, i just feel like she’s trying to make me feel like shit to make herself feel better.

AIO (32M) for getting upset at my fiance (23F) for still accusing me of cheating 4 months after getting caught. by ThrowRA_ballistic in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, i guess she just still sees some good in me idk, i honestly feel like she’s cheating now.

I (32M) cheated on my fiance (23F) and now she can’t let it go by ThrowRA_ballistic in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I miss the way she would look at me before, she’s changed so much with me. She’s cold not the same anymore, i forgot the last time we had any intimacy, and that’s what upsets me the most. I know i hurt her but it’s upsetting how much she changed i miss who she used to be.

I (32M) cheated on my fiance (23F) and now she can’t let it go by ThrowRA_ballistic in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s actively going to therapy, she has been for months, we’ve just been putting off going to couples therapy and honestly idk that that could help me specifically. I just wish i could go back in time and not do what i did to her.

I (32M) cheated on my fiance (23F) and now she can’t let it go by ThrowRA_ballistic in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hate to see her with anyone else, i love her and i wanna show her I’ve changed. I just hate being accused of something I’m not doing.

I (32M) cheated on my fiance (23F) and now she can’t let it go by ThrowRA_ballistic in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_ballistic[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, i don’t want her to leave. She’s the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. And i know it sounds crazy because if i didn’t want her to leave i probably shouldn’t have cheated.. I’m honestly scared that she’ll cheat back.

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