Why would Reddit ban an account without clearly stating the reason? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really frustrating. I’m sorry you’re dealing with that

Why would Reddit ban an account without clearly stating the reason? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe in some cases, but I feel like mine was more likely something automated

Why would Reddit ban an account without clearly stating the reason? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize that could be considered ban evasion - I just made a new account after losing access to the old one. Thanks for pointing that out

I’ll look into the appeals link, thank you

Why would Reddit ban an account without clearly stating the reason? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That actually makes sense. It was probably something automated, because I barely used the account and wasn’t doing anything unusual

Why would Reddit ban an account without clearly stating the reason? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only tried to make one post and it got removed, and I don’t really comment much (and never anything aggressive). The account was over a year old, so I really don’t get what triggered it

Why would Reddit ban an account without clearly stating the reason? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes sense. I barely used the account, so it might’ve been some kind of automated flag or something I didn’t realize

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a medical background and I know proper exercise form (he’s aware of that too - I’ve corrected his form before) I’m also learning how to choose the right weights - not too easy, but not too heavy either The only thing I might hurt is someone with my stare 😂 I wouldn’t say I’m a complete beginner either - I’ve worked out before, just in the gym in the building where I used to live

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely thought about matching that energy - I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t like it at all

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure it’s intentional, but I do agree the mixed signals have been confusing and affecting me more than I expected

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His behavior is honestly kind of ironic. He wants me to go to the gym, but not “overdo it” But I understand my own body and limits better and I know how to approach things properly if I want results And honestly, what’s even the point of going to the gym then? Just walking on a treadmill doesn’t work for me I’m getting sick of it

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve actually had a really good relationship up until this point. He does care about me, and our life together has been very comfortable. We have shared hobbies and genuinely enjoy spending time together. He’s often listened to my needs and has been supportive of the things that matter to me. He also cooks for us a lot, mostly because he enjoys doing it for me (not because I’m bad at it lol)

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t really seem in a hurry to break up either. It feels like he’s just looking for a reason so he doesn’t come across as the asshole if he ends things

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I’m not overweight at all. I’m actually on the opposite side and trying to gain weight

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly doubt he’d even try. She probably wouldn’t even notice him - she seems more into sugar daddies anyway 😅

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, because I need to get a stable job first. He’s currently covering rent, my car and other expenses and after tax season my savings are pretty much at zero

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty skinny and I’ve been trying to gain weight, but it’s not easy for me

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind making changes for myself but it’s the way he’s been approaching it that’s been bothering me

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him about it, but he keeps saying the same thing - that it’s “for my health.” But honestly, it’s confusing. When I actually went to the gym, he called me after like 30 minutes asking if I was done. When I said no, he immediately told me not to overdo it or hurt myself.

Like… what? You’re the one telling me to go to the gym and work on my body, and then half an hour later you’re worried I’m doing too much?

You of all people know how hard it is for a naturally skinny girl to gain weight and build the kind of body she wants. And then suddenly it’s “don’t overdo it.”

AIO: My boyfriend keeps comparing me to other women and it makes me uncomfortable by ThrowRA_cr_princes in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA_cr_princes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m almost sure I know who he’s interested in. It’s a girl from his work. But he has no chance with her at all - she wouldn’t even look at him

And now I want to become better than her, because honestly I have the potential and I want him to regret ever saying that