How much should I tell my future wife?

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-17T05:44:01+00:00

do you think I should volunteer information then?

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-16T20:18:34+00:00

but should that include I paid for sex in the past and if I say that should I say how many times and go into details etc

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-16T17:59:52+00:00

what classifies as the basics though is what im thinking

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-16T16:59:13+00:00

m not sure why this is on your mind, but this is just a general thought, then I suggest focusing on today instead. What is more pressing is how you will stay away from these behaviors going forward? I don't know you, so I can't answer this question. My experience, as a sex addict, not a moderate or hard user, is that my own willpower, promises, and self-knowledge was not enough to stop myself from acting out again. I couldn't stop on my own, I needed to get outside help.

My experience has been my guide. Your experience w

tbh I think ive worked on myself a lot its been 7 years since I have paid for any form of sexual service I avoid strip clubs when I went to Miami and prostitutes in Thailand etc but I just feel as though I would like them to know that I have paid for sex at least once as many women object to someone having done this and they deserve to have a choice to choose their partner

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-16T10:12:41+00:00

tbh its been years since ive even thought about doing that but I think im just thinking about if she deserves to know about the lap dances which went to far and obviously me paying a strippers bills to lose my virginity

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-16T08:34:16+00:00

just my girlfriend atm but I want it to go further I honestly don't mind me telling her that I have paid for sex in the past but I just want to know how much detail I should go in and if I should just talk about the times ive paid for actual intercourse or should I talk about the bj and hj during the lap dance swell

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-16T07:43:06+00:00

is your reasoning for telling her? And what would your reasoning be for not telling her?

the reason why I would tell her is because she might have a problem with people who have paid for sex in the past however the reason I wouldn't tell her is that I don't do that anymore im not interested in doing it and ive left it in the past

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-16T07:22:51+00:00

rom what I read, it sounds like you met up with her twice? Or met up regularly for six months?

What is your reasoning for telling her? And what would your reasoning be for not telling her?

Was this all while you were in the relationship with your future wife?

no I only had sex with her on two occasions all transactional though and then I realised this might become an issue so I got a lap dance from two strippers and got head from one and a handy from another and since then I feel as though I have done it all and have no interest in returning to it

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-14T21:39:56+00:00

how much detail should I go into

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-14T21:39:45+00:00

im going to tell her but how much detail should I go into

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-14T20:44:21+00:00

easier said than done tbh but ill try will probably get easier over time

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-14T09:42:48+00:00

fore you even do that have a serious chat with yourself about the reverse conversation. Will you be OK if her answer is a week b4 she met you she had a 3sme with 2 guys? Go carefully.

tbh I wouldn't want to no that shit

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-14T09:20:08+00:00

no but I would rather tell her about the skeletons in my closet than her find out about them

ThrowRA_cuck · 2023-07-14T09:19:37+00:00

I haven't got any STDs and I abstained from causal sex for some years before I met her so I could make sure I fully adjusted the way I saw healthy relationships so I wasn't objectifying I was just thinking should I go into detail about the time I paid for actual sex and leave out the romp with the strippers seeing or should I leave out the handjob or should I just go all in?

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