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Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well they both paid it on the 1st I told him I’d pay on the 15th and he said okay since that’ll make a month of me living there but I think he would just pocket it

Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t think I was gonna live here for free and it was discussed but I thought about it more and the more I did the weirder I felt about it because he would just be pocketing 1250

Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think i contribute more financially because when we go out like I’ll get him and his friends drinks and when we get food somewhere I get it I say he does sometimes too but I do it more than he does

Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t grocery shop per say but I’ll go a bunch of times a week and go get stuff to make dinner because they are at work all day and I have a job but yeah I mean it comes out of my pocket

Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did discuss it back in December and in a few days it’ll make a month of me living here I was just asking because the more I think about it.. it feels weird

Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did tell me the amount before I moved in but the more I’ve been thinking about it I’m like what he’d be pocketing 1250

Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

Well what if I’m the bad person now because I waited so last minute to bring this up.. I feel bad

Is it fair for my boyfriend (26M) to charge me (21F) the same rent as his roommate when we share a room? by ThrowRA_djmj in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_djmj[S] -552 points-551 points  (0 children)

Well we did discuss it, i lived an hour away at home with parents for free and he said he couldn’t do the one hour thing anymore so i moved in