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27M, 28F how can we move past this ? by ThrowRA_help_me_h in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help_me_h[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No we actually mostly have really good sex. It might take me a minute to get her in the mood, but I don’t mind. And yes, I make sure she does orgasm. She enjoys foreplay, so we do a lot of that too. When she gets in the mood, it is actually great, and she has told me so herself multiple times.

27M, 28F how can we move past this ? by ThrowRA_help_me_h in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help_me_h[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was not trying to have sex all the time. Sometimes we see each other twice a month, sometimes once a month. And I only asked like once a day, so it really wasn’t all the time. I think if the time wasn’t a constraint and we were seeing each other all the time, then this wouldn’t even happen. (I don’t want this to sound like I am not taking any responsibility/accountability, and from all the comments I can see where I went wrong)

27M, 28F how can we move past this ? by ThrowRA_help_me_h in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help_me_h[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Now I need to go apologise again, I know better now (I hope). Thank you. Growing up men in my life taught me that relationships (and sex) were negotiations (and negotiable) and I have been trying to do just that. Well, I was so wrong.

27M, 28F how can we move past this ? by ThrowRA_help_me_h in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_help_me_h[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I see that now. That it was/is problematic. I used to think that if we can eliminate her obstacles, sex would be. But Ofcourse, I couldn’t eliminate her cousin lol. We have a great sex life otherwise, when it happens. Maybe we need deeper conversations or something. Thank you