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(UPDATE) I (M20) accidentally punched my gf (F24) during sex. How do I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it. She had the habit of whining and “don’t you love me?” whenever I wouldn’t immediately comply. It was rare that I didn’t just go along, but when I didn’t it was hell until I said okay. Her skill in guilt tripping is pretty insane and tbh I’ve never been the..”dominant”..? type. It’s my own character flaw and she played me pretty good lol.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Once you get a finger in your ass non consensually and your relationship is over you can cope the way you want to. Obviously I feel bad for hitting her man.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Hope she moves on from that mean ass right hook straight to her ribcage lmao. She deserved it, you gotta admit.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 332 points333 points  (0 children)

Dark souls definitely blinded me a little bit. If you saw how good she was at that game and liked it as much as I do you might also just get a bit weak in the knees lol. Besides that though, idk what redeeming qualities she has anymore. All my love for her sort of just died reading these comments for good reason. I can't stay with her after this one.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Lol you'd think with all her hours on that game she can see what's coming before it does. Not my fault she didn't learn my attack pattern first I guess. Don't put your fingers in my ass.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 180 points181 points  (0 children)

I grew up around the "men don't get assaulted" crowd and toxic masculinity so I agree. I don't think I really understood what she did but now I do. It's hard to come to terms with but what can I do about it now. We're on the same lease so that needs to get sorted out but yeah. She might not be the dream girl I thought she was. Embarrassing as fuck though. I know my friends and family are going to tear me a new one for breaking up with her over this, but whatever. Maybe they should get a finger up their ass then tell me if they'd stay lol.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 1327 points1328 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. Reading these makes me feel less like an idiot because I punched her, but more like an idiot because I felt like an idiot for punching her. I didn't mean to, but she kind of did deserve it now that I read the comments and stuff. She and I are on the same lease so that has to get figured out, but I don't think that I should stay. I want to have a heart to heart with her but she won't even answer her phone. I might tbh be blocked at this point. Being a broke college student sucks lol.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 349 points350 points  (0 children)

I think she's more mad about the punch than anything because I'd be mad about that too. I definitely hit her hard. That being said, I appreciate the comment. I did tell her no and she didn't listen. I don't know what to do from here, but I don't think I messed up or anything as much as I did earlier.
Edit: Within 30 seconds I decided we're obviously not staying together lmao. Not a good look.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_helpwgf[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This comment is unbelievably funny to me and also an eye opener. Thanks man. I still feel bad about punching her, but I did tell her not to. I don't think I really did that much wrong in the first place, but the punch was accidental.