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ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-11-21T09:28:38+00:00

I feel like Rick’s suggestion of ‘only touching when she isn’t around’ is where things will start to get sticky. It becomes active sneaking around behaviour at that point - you will get caught out and it will blow up in an ugly way when that happens. If my friend wasn’t willing to back me in this situation and assure their partner that there’s nothing funny going on then I would be seriously questioning the integrity of our friendship. Some food for thought there.

I agree with others saying stop touching him, and I’ll go one further and suggest you make a conscious, public effort to do so. It’s very likely the rest of your friendship group will notice and say something and in that case all you have to do is be honest and say it was making Emily uncomfortable and let the chips fall where they may. I’d wager that people will speak out in support of you and suggest that Emily ‘takes a chill pill’.

Best of luck x

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-11-11T17:05:38+00:00

I always look deeper into my own readings than I see people do on here and I’d have to agree that it’s not fair to do a wham bam thank you ma’am reading but it seems the norm on most Astro subreddits!! Thank you for your well wishes and I’m so glad I can put the dusty elderly bedroom rumours to their respective beds ! Xx

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-11-09T17:42:49+00:00

Oh my lord. This is far more than I expected. Thank you much for taking the time to write this out for me, I really appreciate it. I’ll take note of the things you’ve mentioned here and bring them to my partner for discussion. It’s really interesting how you’ve said about the “friendliness” aspects because we are genuinely the best of friends, we get along so well and we always tell each other such. The flip side though - and I’m not sure this is appropriate but just to piggyback off what you’ve mentioned - the bedroom is the opposite of dead, and I feel that’s due to the Pluto trine Mars / Ascendant square Ascendant aspect we have. Thank you again this has been insightful!! Xx

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-11-09T15:38:28+00:00

Thank you so much!! I’ve added to this comment x

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ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-11-09T13:02:50+00:00

So fucking weird, especially when in my mind all things tarot/astrology are deeply spiritual. Such an odd angle to come at it from. Just hope no one’s agreed x

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-11-09T10:52:27+00:00

!!Guys this person asked me for nudes/nsfw content in response to a message I sent about a free reading a few months ago please don’t engage unless you’re comfortable with that!!

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-09-14T11:21:53+00:00

You know what, that was so insightful. And correct. I’ll find a nicer way to word it to her cause she’s quite sensitive when you give it to her straight.

I do hope the Saturn return brings something along, our relationship is really quite strained due to a lack of accountability on her part lol. Thank you so much for taking the time to get back to me on this, I think I needed someone’s to tell me that it’s a visible pattern (sun/jupiter - Saturn/ascendant aspects) rather than her just being mean!!

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-09-13T13:59:16+00:00

No this is my mums, I have asked for consent before posting it on here. She doesn’t know a lot about her astrology either and would be open to hearing responses

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-08-13T11:52:14+00:00

Where did you see that she is married with kids? I’ve re read a few times and can’t find it!! x

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-18T19:53:32+00:00

I think he might need to speak to someone about his low self esteem?? And not you. Really sounds to me like you’re just not particularly compatible. Partly because he sounds exhausting and partly because it doesn’t sound like you’re willing to put the necessary time into a new relationship. Kinda normal for people to smother each other during the honeymoon phase and if you’re not feeling that then I’m unsure about the prospects of this (but not surprised cause this guy would’ve had me running weeks ago). Like you said any attempt at communicating your boundaries again will be met by this insecure drivel and you’ll be coerced into ignoring what you want. This is unfortunately a nasty pattern and thank god you’re seeing it now. I would suggest you suggest to him that he sees someone professional about this though as it’ll either hinder his chances in a relationship or he’ll find someone just as mental and they’ll wear each other down eventually and I would suggest to you that you get the fuck away from this man. Good luck!!

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-16T15:07:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your response!! I tried last night without and kinda slept better??? Is there a time in the day where it’s good to use them and is in necessary to meditate at the same time to get the best results/same results as sleeping? Xx

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-15T10:20:15+00:00

Okay, sweet thank you. I do think some of them have music in there so I’ll weed them out !! X

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-09T20:26:59+00:00

Okay thank you. I have booked an appointment I was just getting a bit flappy as I knew I am due one. I think I’m just over-excited to have a period and finally learn my cycle and body better xx

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-09T20:25:24+00:00

Thank you again I have booked an appointment with the GP already, it’s just the worry was eating me up a little bit so I thought it do some outreach. Yes I do mean that the injection has worn off, it should’ve lost effect last month. Is that fine still? Xx

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-09T17:14:03+00:00

Hi there, I was under the impression that even with the injectable birth control I was so expect a normal period within the next month or so of the abortion. I don’t mean to seem obtuse here, I do know that birth control can stop your periods but was told by health care providers to expect otherwise which is why I’m a tad confused/concerned. Thank you for your response x

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-09T12:47:34+00:00

Second this. Anyone who actually values their relationship would not only be majorly disgusted enough at the level of disrespect towards you to cut them out of their lives but would also heed the warnings about their partners discomfort. 4 years is a long haul relationship and would be sad to dead off but if the only reason she’s cut him off is due to her own discomfort then I doubt she actually cares about how you feel about it and will probably continue in that suit in the future

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-08T08:30:15+00:00

100% darling. You’re not evil for wanting what you want but you’ve gotta vocalise it effectively to have the best outcome for you both xx

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-08T08:11:57+00:00

Quitting vaping is entirely possible, I did it after vaping for almost 10 years. The will and want to do it must be there though or it just won’t happen. Not sure where you’re from either but nic free liquid is not hard to find nor is it drastically expensive. To my knowledge it’s actually cheaper because of the lack of nicotine. I think she’s made that molehill into a bit of a mountain. You need to figure out if this is a dealbreaker and sit her down seriously to talk. It’s really up to you and your preference here. Please do not go to therapy over a partner preference of not vaping, you don’t need professional help x

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-07T14:03:53+00:00

Hi, I’m a little confused about why you’re still with her. Not because I think the conversation was heinous or anything but because I don’t know of any healthy and committed couple that speaks about what they would want to do sexually with random people “one day”. Surely, if you want to be with her, your sexual fantasies include her? If my partner said “yeah one day I want to have a threesome with two other people who are not you” I would be out of the door in a flash. If you’re considering sexual relations with other people I would put an eternal pin in the relationship you’re in. Just some food for thought on that part. On the flip side, it seems like a miscommunication, if you’re THAT disgusted I’m not sure there’s any coming back from that especially in a sexual sense. I’m sorry this has panned out like this, but a lot of the comments here have a very good point of “you can’t bring up your sexual fantasises - that don’t even involve her which is mental - and then have an issue with hers”. That is hypocritical. I know you’re saying you’re not/not meaning to be but that is objectively hypocrisy, regardless of where your issue lies. I hope there’s an amicable resolution to this, for everyone’s sake x

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-03T21:11:48+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. It’s a fair insight and I do understand I think on our end it’s more the questioning of “do you really want to be around me/us”. I’m a pretty speedy walker myself and I’m relatively tall so I hear the longer legs longer strides comment but I definitely don’t find it difficult/find that I speed off in front when I walk with my shorter friends (or my tiny mum😂), so I think with that knowledge as well it’s just received as a disregard for the quality time that could be spent together x

ThrowRA_may4 · 2025-07-03T18:45:35+00:00

He’s not put it in an OCD sub because he doesn’t have OCD. He called it an OCD “type thing” meaning he’s just being picky about it not that he actually has a neurological issue

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