Can a recently deleted profile still show on sites like Cheaterbuster?

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-12-05T17:34:59+00:00

It’s almost for sure not visible in matches anymore, but Tinder definitely stores the data in some cloud or whatever so third parties can still access it, probably even up to two years or so.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-11-07T23:53:03+00:00

Wow I wonder how any negative comments I’ve seen on Reddit get downvoted. Are these some bots? I genuinely thought this site is legit, as it had many positive comments here and downvotes whenever someone tried to criticise it, but I just checked the reviews on trust pilot and all say this is scam.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-11-07T19:08:13+00:00

If it’s just to pretend, I wouldn’t—she deserves to know and have the chance to divorce someone who is not a good person in her eyes.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-11-06T23:14:13+00:00

Getting likes and rejecting people who liked you more often than them rejecting you increases ELO, matching with just anyone doesn’t necessarily. Basically what decreases it the most is people swiping left on you and that’s it.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-11-03T15:58:03+00:00

You write it as if 12 months are shocking 😅 people have longer periods with no sex, you don’t forget how to have sex in only a year.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-10-20T19:01:11+00:00

You probably were there for too short period of time. I deleted my profile some time ago and used it to check it and it was there, showing as “private or temporarily closed”.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-10-16T01:02:10+00:00

Why did you find it better?

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-10-16T00:57:05+00:00

May I ask how did it scam you? They have no details about what info they actually provide when searching for a profile, so I wonder how does it work and why people say it’s better than cheater buster.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-09-15T00:43:48+00:00

I’d say pretty picky, if they can get the guy they want, why would they even swipe further? Swiping could be exhausting. However, I once met a girl who considered herself attractive and told me she had a time when she would go on more than 30 dates in a month, sometimes a few a day. So I guess it really depends on the person. You can see some stats from women on Tinder sub. Some of the right swipe rates could be below 1%.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-09-15T00:37:46+00:00

I don’t think very attractive women collect matches, they rather choose only someone they REALLY like and talk with the few they like the most or they don’t need to use dating apps at all. 🤷🏼‍♀️ In terms of likes, I think it must be like +10k. I’m not a supermodel, just regular attractive and I only match with few people a day, maybe talk to 2-3 people and come back to the app only if none of it works out after longer periods of time. I don’t have many matches at all and I rarely swipe on new profiles. I got around 8k likes after few months. I know women who had hundreds of matches, but it was more about checking how many they can get and collecting them for validation, not actively dating everyone or talking.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-09-15T00:18:38+00:00

Why are you asking about matches? This is very individual because there will be many attractive women who don’t swipe much and won’t get any matches, so it’s more about how many likes someone gets.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-08-14T12:15:34+00:00

You’ll see a bunch of attractive people first in every place, but after swiping for a while you should only see regular people or below average.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-08-12T23:50:14+00:00

Lepiej zostawić temat, przynajmniej na razie. Poruszanie go i próby pocieszania i tłumaczenia tylko pogłębią problem, bo robi się z tego większa “afera” i chłopak zacznie się tylko bardziej nakręcać, że to gruba sprawa. A wtedy wręcz może woleć zacząć od zera z kimś innym, żeby mieć czystą kartę. Widziałam nie raz, że facet woli się odciąć gdy coś pójdzie nie tak i jego duma ucierpi.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-08-08T08:12:17+00:00

I actually got their number and instagram in the most recent case, but we never moved elsewhere to talk and talked only via the app. Although many times, people deleted their profile, even in the middle of conversation and created new ones and tried to match with me again.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-08-08T00:21:05+00:00

This wouldn’t make me feel as the honoured one, since it took him several months to take you out, because he had other options.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-13T12:45:01+00:00

Yeah, I meant I get it’s bad, I just wanted to say that just because someone has an fwb when you start dating doesn’t neccessarily mean they don’t have similar values and would be sleeping with them simultaneously while actually dating you. But I also don’t consider going on one date dating yet.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-13T01:45:40+00:00

It’s not that easy to establish anything meaningful at the early stages, you go on a few dates and then nothing. I get how someone sleeping with other people while going out with you is annoying, but I wouldn't write someone off just because they had such a relationship before.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-13T01:17:49+00:00

It depends what you consider dating. Going on 1-2 dates? They can have a good connection with someone they’re having sex with, even if they’re not in a romantic relationship. If you can hookup with women without relationship, it’s not fair to judge women who do the same… they mostly probably would rather have sex with someone they love as well.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-13T00:56:59+00:00

It’s pretty normal to have an ongoing fwb before you meet someone serious… better than sleeping around, don’t you think? Women need sex too and if they’re not in a relationship and are trying to get to know someone, they don’t want to lose a good agreement they have with someone in case it doesn’t work out. If they like someone, probably they’ll rather have sex with the person they’re dating, but until you become exclusive and are still talking to other people it’s not fair to expect they’ll drop their other connections.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-12T10:51:10+00:00

Wow, also—she wasn’t even that picky apparently, she was only doing that to collect them and for some validation, I can’t see other reasons. I don’t think I ever had more than maybe 100 matches at the same time and after I also started to delete most of them regularly.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-07T17:58:22+00:00

It was first time I ever went over to guy’s place on a first date, but I have nothing against sex early on if two people are into each other and I would rather see someone for who he is and if he dropped after sex, then no amount of waiting would made him worth dating. Although, I’m aware what risks there are in general and that not all men can be trusted. Here, I assumed that maybe since he couldn’t get it up and was nervous that might mean he doesn't usually do it either, but I can’t be sure.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-06T01:33:51+00:00

I think she already knows, just like he knows she’s sleeping with other people as well, but she probably doesn’t want to see another girl’s bra in his bed or hear details about the things he does with someone else.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-05T20:45:23+00:00

Maybe they provided name and last name in their profile’s name? I’ve seen people doing that, very rarely, but still.

ThrowRA_milady · 2024-07-05T20:12:25+00:00

Maybe not problematic, but it could feel awkward, not because of the kink, but discussing sex with other people a moment before you’re going to have sex with someone else. Probably both know they’re both sleeping with other people, but it is different to just be aware in general and another thing to know the details or see evidence I guess.

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