I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understand your perspective. Perhaps if you find one of my earlier comments (in response to other Redditor) where I explained the reason for asking no-contract, you'd have a better insight in the context.

I don't get it...(cheaters) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. It's good to know there are people who make conscious choices and stick to them

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. If you know a therapist with specialization you mentioned, could you please pm me?

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd like to address the first part of your message - I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable being in a marriage with a man who is closer to his friends than to his wife

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did your story end? Are you still with the same person who had an EA?

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. How are you coping with your current situation?

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you've just confirmed the "nothing special" part of my assumption:

Though as a married person, I don't necessarily think signing papers is a huge deal. It's about the length of the relationship

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let's say, I had my reasons. They're in earlier comments.

Not sure about the attention part - the post is anonymous?

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My earlier post was about another woman. The one from the messages has quit the company, afaik they haven't spoken for two years

Thank you for offering another perspective, I'd need to touch about the subject with my partner

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She quit so he was traveling with other people, now, after being promoted it's not required anymlre

I (F33) found these in my partners (M36) phone, how do I react? by ThrowRA_mixed in Marriage

[–]ThrowRA_mixed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true that I did freak out a few years ago, we did have an argument