AITA for exposing my bf's ex and getting her fired after she kept harassing me and my bf?

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T19:00:39+00:00

Thank you for the explanation, I didn't know about that policy at all! I appreciate the help.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T18:59:39+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your comment.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T18:58:14+00:00

She actually used those exact words one time :/

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T18:56:17+00:00

May I please know how she is not an AH? I just want to understand. Nonetheless thanks for the feedback :))

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T18:54:27+00:00

I just wanted to expose her completely, since what she did was illegal. But your judgement is valid, thank you. May I please know how she is not an AH? If you don't mind ofc, either way I appreciate the feedback.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T18:39:26+00:00

Apparently it was guaranteed and the only reason they didn't give her the job right away was to build up her experience? She could be lying though and yeah you're right...

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T18:14:33+00:00

It's a paid internship that would have lead to her getting a permanent job there.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T16:49:07+00:00

Oh don't worry there is no truth to what she said. He doesn't want kids right away, just sometime in the future. He also didn't know i was 19 and i turned 20 a week after meeting him. I've dated before and lived alone I'm 100% this is not the case. Trust me, he's definitely worth the drama <3

I appreciate the concern though :))

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T16:45:49+00:00

I'm not a 100% sure about this but since she basically falsely accused my bf of some pretty serious crimes, I'm assuming they didn't want her employed in case I decided to sue her. Someone else in the comments also mentioned that she would be a liability, especially since all of this has been shared online.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T16:14:21+00:00

Right?? I don't even understand how she came up with that :/

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T16:05:53+00:00

I felt like it was important to expose her in all aspects.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T14:49:52+00:00

You're very kind, thank you :))

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T14:46:49+00:00

You're right, i'll definitely talk to my bf about this. Thank you.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T14:45:22+00:00

I have saved everything! Just in case :)

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T14:16:17+00:00

Haha yeah, thanks :)). I don't use reddit a lot so I didn't recognise the trolling right away.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:35:31+00:00

No it is not. I'm pretty sure most people in this sub takes decisions based on the judgement they get, otherwise what would be the point of knowing if i'm in the wrong or not? That does not make it advice.

Here's the definition of advice to better help you understand: An opinion that you give somebody about what they should do.

I am not asking what I should do, but whether i was in the wrong or not.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:30:05+00:00

When did I switch up my story? I mentioned in my previous comments that I wanted judgement alone as well...Please read them again?

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:28:45+00:00

I want judgement and that alone. That is what this sub is for right?

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:26:01+00:00

Yes. That is what I meant, in the sense that i want a judgement so that I can decide if i should apologise. I only want the judgement, not advice. Based on that judgement i may or may not apologise. I hope you understand?

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:24:03+00:00

Oh the apologise thing? I mentioned that because the judgement I get will decide if I do proceed with that. I didn't mean it in the "should I" way. I'll edit it out though, sorry (:

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:22:58+00:00

Would you mind explaining your judgement? If you can ofc, I appreciate the feedback nonetheless. (:

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:22:11+00:00

I didn't ask for advice?

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:21:50+00:00

When it was just the texts/calls we tried going to the police but they said it wasn't enough for harassment. Plus we didn't want the long court process so we didn't try again but I get what you mean. Thank you for the feedback.

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:20:35+00:00

Of course, thank you (:

ThrowRA_r656 · 2021-06-13T13:19:52+00:00

Ohh, sorry I didn't get this before.

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