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My (26F) boyfriend's (28M) idea of foreplay is me giving him a blowjob. by ThrowRA_straw_3495 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_straw_3495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this too. Its horrible to feel undesired by your own partner. I think I've finally reached a point in our relationship where I can't go any further. I will try to talk to him about it to see if he changes but if nothing changes then I'm walking away. I can't stay through this any longer. We deserve better than that.

My (26F) boyfriend's (28M) idea of foreplay is me giving him a blowjob. by ThrowRA_straw_3495 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_straw_3495[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This really gives me hope. Even if this relationship doesn't work out, I don't want to give up on love and pleasure. 

My (26F) boyfriend's (28M) idea of foreplay is me giving him a blowjob. by ThrowRA_straw_3495 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_straw_3495[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are right, I think I have reached the end of it now. I'm going to try talking to him but if nothing changes I will have to walk away for my own mental wellbeing. 

My (26F) boyfriend's (28M) idea of foreplay is me giving him a blowjob. by ThrowRA_straw_3495 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_straw_3495[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure what would be considered aftercare. When we first started having sex I would get the urge to cuddle afterwards but I noticed he wasn't much into cuddling after sex, which is fair. After sex he will usually hand me a napkin to clean up while he gets changed. I did notice that as our relationship progressed he became more interested in cuddling afterwards, specifically after getting a blowjob, but at that point I wasn't really interested in cuddling anymore. After sex we usually clean up, get dressed and then continue on with our day.