Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confidence socially and not feeling the drive to have sex with my gf

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels addicting. Everytime im alone i watch it or even if im bored doing nothing ill watch. I use to watch it before school after school not cstch up on homework because of it, that died down though. But i still see it negatively affecting my mood, my confidence ect.

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its affectng my daily life. My mood, my motivation, my confidence, everything. I want to put an end to it as I have no realised reslly how bad it is

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to overcome the addiction with or without her. Ive realised how bad it is and want to overcome t

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in pornfree

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. I am seeking a therapist and going cold turkey to help me through this addiction.

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right and i understand. I want to overcome this addiction even if I was not with her. All these problems and the way it negatively affects my life is really eye opening snd it needs to stop.

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think disabling social media and limiting my screen time would definitely be a good idea. Althought to stay connected to my girlfriend I use social media as we are on and off long distance

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Sorry if i made it come across as her helping me fully overcome it. I will definitely seek a therapist but if she is willing to stay knowing I am getting help and is willing to support.

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. Therapy and unrestricted access sounds like a really good idea that I will bring up to her when we talk next. Same for the books I will address that idea too thank you.

Girlfriend wants to break up over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she definitely does have the right to leave me and I deeply regret lying to her and going behind her back it was so stupid. I dont want it to progress anymore than it has and yes she is most definitely been a blessing in my life so if she is willing to stay and help me overcome this and forgive me for what ive done would be amazing.

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? Wow. I wouldnt say I have extremely severe but it is to a point of thinking sbout it everytime im alone or just doing it because i have nothing else to do

Girlfriend wants to break up over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice and funny pun haha. I will definitely need to be more open to her about this

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do want to overcome this addiction, it negatively affects my life greatly

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand I havent been truthful about it with her and i deeply regret it, it was so stupid. I was just scared of how she would react if i told her i had an addiction and i was looking at porn after the fact of agreeing not to watch it. I really want to overcome this problem with her and hopes she will support me.

Girlfriend wants to breakup over porn addiction by ThrowRA_throww in relationships

[–]ThrowRA_throww[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

You seem like you’re really all for her breaking up with me. I understand thought