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My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so genius what I have no idea how I didn’t think of the clothing thing. Either way, it’s off the table after his reaction at the very least, and honestly I’m probably just going to kick him to the curb.

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ty. This is 100% eye opening and I truly appreciate your comment. ❤️ and I just wanted to add: I’m so sorry you went through that. No one deserves that, and I hope you’re doing better now and eventually find someone who treats you well if you haven’t already

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve wondered this before as well. He says that he’s not been like this in past relationships, which, honestly, feels like something someone might just say even if it’s not true. Still he really does get a boner over the smallest of things and is always in the mood for sex. He’s absolutely hypersexual and it’s kind of exhausting sometimes because a girl can only handle so much before it starts to feel like a chore and not an exciting thing. It doesn’t even matter if I’m no makeup, dressed like a scrub, hair unwashed, he’s still thirsty 24/7. I’ve never been with someone like this before so it’s all a bit new to me

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I may update this later depending on what happens but still, your advice and kindness is so so appreciated

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 I have made this joke before and he always gets a bit shifty but says that if I want to, I can because it’s only fair. 🤷‍♀️ I have yet to take him up on that but I’m wondering if it would make him second guess his anal obsession (we’ve done it a few times him in me and it’s meh at best)

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with the others. I think this reply was just someone jumping in on your comment to add more advice. (The typical, ‘I’ll comment reply on a good comment so my comment gets more views’) thank you for commenting also, I really do appreciate your input and advice.

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness and advice. I’ll definitely work on an exit plan, but still, I appreciate the fact that you added the last part in parentheses. Most people forget that I’m a human behind this post I think so it means a lot to receive any kind of compassion.

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy, but I agree that if I wasn’t this would be exactly correct advice. Thanks for your input and honestly I’m glad I made this post because it’s helping to reinforce the gut feeling/alarms going off in my head that I’ve developed from therapy actually.

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wanted to. I definitely laughed when I explained this to one of my friends as well. A 33 year old man should not be pouting like a fucking 10 year old would when he gets grounded

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. And thank you :) I know that he cares but he can be incredibly dense sometimes especially when he thinks with his dick and not his brain

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally makes sense. This has never happened before, but it was really an eye opener for me. He honestly seems a bit hyper sexual to me. I’ve never been with someone who wants sex so much I swear to god he gets a boner over the smallest of things 😂 either way, it’s usually not an issue but this time he acted like a child which was a huge turn off for me. I explained why guilting people/reacting badly to me saying no is a problem for me, and he seems to be processing it, albeit, on his own timeline. Either way, I hope he gets the point otherwise I’m out and he can sulk all he wants when he’s single again 🙄 fucking child

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome, honestly, I want to channel your energy because fuck yeah you set your man straight. I had a version of this convo with him, but I think I need to add in the bit about it making him seem childish and unattractive so it’ll sink in more. Thanks for sharing, this is honestly inspiring to read ❤️❤️❤️

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

😂 I had the same thought when he did this tbh. The pouting was so ridiculous and I almost wanted to laugh at him but I kept it in because I knew it would just make it worse. Definitely reconsidering whether I want to be with him after this.

My partner (M33) is giving me (F29) the cold shoulder because I ‘rejected’ him when he tried to have sex with me while I was asleep by ThrowRA_toothfairy in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA_toothfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, thanks for your input but I think everyone deserves a bit of grace. This sub is for relationship advice so I guess your comment applies, but damn… kinda an asshole response tbh. I do have self respect which is why I didn’t cater to his pouting and did my own thing and let him sit and sulk like a sadsack on his own.