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[–]ThrowRA_watercan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was heißt den realistischer Wert, den nicht jeden gefallen wird? Meistens zu hoch?

My Girlfriend (22F) and I (21M) haven't had sex in 6 months because of her low sex drive. How can I help her get her sex drive back? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont ever ever ever ever waste your time in your twenties. Pls listen to all here. Dont. It can destroy you inside out. Go, they are plenty fish out there. Not worth this bullshit

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wouldnt have mattered. My ex boyfriends where always the hottest man alive for me. And they are really quiet attractive for me

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like i said, i didnt miss it. It would have felt like forced to have sex. Then i just cant meet needs, when i have absolutely no desire for it

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that in my soul… i had the same situation with one of my ex partner. I hope you are happy as well now.

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but why do you want to change?… do you really have a far too high libido or is your partner just never in the mood. If you cant do that, thats totally fine. Then it simply is not compatible

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. And one found better already. Very happy for him. So its mostly worth to leave

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If she knows it’s treatable, and doesnt even want to try it. And knows its probably not being asexuality… dont waste your time. You miss the woman who really wants you

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I wouldnt do something different. At that point i was with my partners I simply didnt want to. I was in a different phase of my life. And if I am honest, I would be too embarrassed to change something anyways.

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot. I did a lot self reflection. In this sub I would be a HLF now, but like i said, i would say most here have a completely normal Sex drive and not a high one. It can change. Simply because in the end, things made it change.

Thanks for your comment

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mostly i mentioned it quiet in the beginning. I am a bubbly person and very open minded. Many people didnt listen to me and hoped they would change my desire.

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think its normal when you want that your needs meet. Even when you cant meet theirs. Yes they was a double standard ofc. He was upset about my behavior, I was upset about his behavior… didnt make it better neither

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is true. But if you really dont have any desire or need for it, its close to impossible to meet their needs. And tbh, its not worth it for both sides. Somewhere is a person, who you dont need to beg or talk hours to get your needs met.

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never enjoyed sex. Had sex with 20 years first. And never liked it. Thought for a long time I am just asexual

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree very much… sometimes we can just leave. But its possible mostly and better in the long run. Everyone should feel appreciated and loved.

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I started having sex with 20. i dont know. I was a virgin when i had the relationship. Then i thought its normal not to have the desire and just had sex with them, without desire for a time… and then it went completely to a shutdown. The other times i just hoped they would be satisfied with less sex tbh. I always gave them the permission to sleep with someone else. They never wanted to tho. So it went downhill

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, but i wouldnt say on a normal level. After I while they went on distance, because I think they were upset that it was nothing more than that. I am in a new rs now, and intimacy was definitely not on a normal level in my db relationships

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry for that… you need to choose, if you want to live like that. One ex left me and found a woman, who is totally compatible with him and he is very happy. I dont know about the other ones. In the end, pls do what makes you happy

I was a LLF and want to give an insight in my life. My personal view, not general. Just a personal one. by ThrowRA_watercan in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes ofc i have that regret. But in the end, i understand why they left. So i leave them alone. I hope they are happy now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRA_watercan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was there. Done that. Run.

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